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House Judiciary [Mar 31, 2026 - Upon Adjournment]

March 31, 2026 · Judiciary · 40,605 words · 13 speakers · 174 segments

Derek Skelchokother

I'll come to order. Ms. Shipley, please call the roll.

Ms. Shipleyother

Representatives Bacon. Excused. Clifford. Excused. Espinosa. Here. Linnell. Here. Garcia. Here. Kelty. Here. Slaw. Here. Soper. Here. Zocay. Excused. Carter. Present.

Derek Skelchokother

Mr. Chair. Here. Okay, members. We have one bill today. House Bill 1309. We're going to do, because there are quite a bit of witnesses, but since we only have one bill and I think people want to share their personal stories, we're going to do three minutes instead of two minutes for testimony. And with that, let's get started. Whoever would like to begin, Rep. Story, Rep. Froehlich.

Representative Rep. Storyassemblymember

Rep. Story. Rep. Story. Wow. Good morning, just barely, Mr. Chair and members of the committee. I appreciate the opportunity to speak in deep support of this bill today. It's been a privilege working alongside Representative Froelich over the past few years on several pieces of incredibly important common sense legislation meant to keep children safe when going through family court. This bill is the logical next step in this process. A few years ago, a trauma-informed care social worker shared with me a horrifying ProPublica investigation detailing the story of a Colorado father with a self-confessed history of sexual assault and a documented domestic violence conviction who was nonetheless granted primary custody of his young son. Despite 36 separate reports of potential abuse from over a dozen professionals, including doctors, therapists, and school principals, our legal system chose to believe a narrative of parental alienation rather than the physical evidence and the consistent outcries of a child. We are seeing a documented trend where survivors are pathologized, accused of hysteria, and even jailed while custody is awarded to the abuser. As Rep. Froelich shared, or will share, there was even an instance in Colorado where a single judge ruled on two separate cases that resulted in the abuser murdering the child. Yet there were no consequences for those judicial decisions. We must recognize that these cases are not isolated incidents. It is a symptom of systemic failure. Over the past few years, this body has passed a series of bills designed to keep children safe through family court. In 2021, we passed Rep. Froelich's bill, Julie's Law, to address the essential training of court-appointed evaluators. In 2023, we furthered that work with Rep. Froelich's Bill Cadence Law to allow for federal funding for additional domestic violence training and resources. That same year, the Victim and Survivor Training for Judicial Personnel Task Force was created, and I teamed up with Rep. Froelich in 2024 and passing HB 24-1350 to stress the best interests of the child when deciding the outcomes of a custody. case However our work remains unfinished Right now Colorado is leaving an estimated 1 million dollars in federal funding on the table because we have not yet mandated the specific judicial training on domestic violence and child abuse required to be eligible for dollars under the Federal Violence Against Women Act reauthorization This bill is essential, the essential next step to bridge that gap and ensure our judges have the tools they need to keep children safe in family court. House Bill 26-1309 works to ensure that judges consider domestic violence and child abuse as they allocate parenting time and decisions. Specifically, it requires that if the court has reason to believe domestic violence, child abuse, or sexual assault has occurred, the judge must determine the truth by a preponderance of the evidence and make specific findings on the record. We are bringing an amendment that strikes the requirement that the evidence be written. Instead, it must become part of the official record. The goal is to provide a framework and a roadmap to ensure judges can competently identify warning signs of violence earlier in a case without bias. As it exists, there are various definitions and standards scattered throughout the statute concerning the dissolution of marriage in different forms. This legislation does not change any existing definitions. Rather, it unpacks and consolidates the different types of harm into one place into our existing statutes, including stalking, sexual assault, health-related abuse, coercive control, technological abuse, and economic abuse. By capturing this full range of harm and putting it in one place, we are ensuring that judges are able to make rulings consistent with the law that do not endanger children. We cannot continue to allow a child's safety to be secondary to the perceived fairness to an abuser. Child safety must be paramount to the best interest of the child. I urge you to support this vital legislation to protect our kids and ensure that no more Colorado children are placed back into homes where they are being harmed. Thank you, and I'm happy to address your questions.

Derek Skelchokother

Rev. Froelich.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Thank you very much, Mr. Chair. Thank you very much, Judiciary Committee, for allowing us to present 1309, a continued work to keep children safe in family court. We are here again because a group of activists, survivors, and whose experience in family court has been so painful and so dangerous that they have joined a movement to reform family court. When survivors of domestic violence and parents of survivors of child abuse come to family court, they hope that the judge will see what is happening in their home and award custody accordingly. Their allegations and their evidence is more often than not dismissed, or worse, it is able to be used against them. An allegation of sex assault by a parent in a custody agreement has an 80% chance of the accuser losing custody of the child because they mentioned or tried to prove sex assault. It's about 50% if it's an allegation of domestic violence. And time after time we have tried to basically get to a point where judges are considering this evidence when they are making custodial decisions And instead, in Douglas County, not only did the judge give custody to the abuser, but he said on Friday, when we come back on Monday, I do believe that there has been domestic violence. I do believe that there has been abuse. On Monday, I'm going to award mom full custody. That weekend, the father killed the two children in Douglas County and himself. In Larimer County, custody was awarded to an abuser who killed one of our advocates' two daughters. In Boulder, as was mentioned previously, there's a magistrate who now on two separate cases has awarded custody to the abuser. and those children have been killed by the abuser. In Colorado last year, it was five children who post-custody were killed by their parent post-family court allocation of custody. And that's the folks who have had the ultimately horrible outcome. Our movement is hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of folks whose children have been spending every other weekend with who the children have expressed are our parents who are assaulting them. and we just have not been able to figure out how to, and this committee is very, very aware of this, how to allow for judicial discretion but also insert this imperative that domestic violence be properly understood and the best interest of the child to, decisions concerning the best interest of the child to factor in domestic violence and child abuse. And so in our first effort, we said, oh, they must be getting not really great reports. And so the reports must not be fully outlining what's really happening. And so we put in domestic violence training for the PREs and CFIs. In subsequent bills, we said, oh, they're relying on these experts that are saying some pretty crazy things. Let's put some parameters on what constitutes an expert. a young man came to me and said they didn't listen to me when I was in family court. I told them what my dad had done, and they wouldn't listen to me. And so we put voice of the child into the statute. If the judge hears the child, he hears these experts that are trained, he is understanding what is being presented as junk science, then these determinations will be different. And yet we have these continued outcomes that are leading to ruined lives. So we said, well, how can we get judges trained? So a bipartisan effort put together a commission, the 1108 commission, that said, let's train judges. How will we go about getting judges to be more aware of what the realities? because there's so much more knowledge and expertise on what constitutes domestic violence now and how so much of it is undetectable by traditional means. So the 1108 Commission came back with a list of 20-odd recommendations. We have not been able to act on a single one of those. So today we came before you originally with a bill that said okay how about there a pause point And if the judge wants to award custody to someone with this when there has been some preponderance of evidence of domestic violence and abuse, then they need to just write it out. They need to say, I still believe this is in the best interest of the child. According to the fiscal note, that would take five minutes. then judicial department multiplied that by the number of times that that would occur and it resulted in an $800,000 fiscal note. It's interesting to the advocates to say that's what the cost of five minutes to determine the best interest of the child when there is domestic violence and domestic abuse that that five minutes, when we went back to them and said we can't do this because of the fiscal note and because it won't get through. They said, wow, the determination on the safety of a child is not worth five minutes of a judge writing out their reasoning. So we came back with something that we hope addresses the fiscal note. It is not changing as my fabulous co-sponsor, CoPrime, said. It does not change a single definition. It does put them all in one place in statute, because that was something that we heard from family court attorneys, that the judges were saying, it's all over the place. I don't know where I'm looking to see. So we have in one place all of the work that we've been doing to define domestic violence. And we ask the court to go through what is outlined in the bill, a series of determinations, sort of a flow chart, partially to remove these, to place some extra eyeballs, extra judiciary discretion onto these cases where abuse has just been so thoroughly outlined. and for custodial decisions that do not involve domestic violence, for them to go through the process that they go through now, but to highlight that in these cases the stakes are so incredibly high and to make sure that we don't have yet another terrible domestic violence fatality review report next year where this just keeps happening. So that's the bill you see before you. heavily amended to take out the written findings, proposing this alternate sense of this is a series of what we think the judge should be sort of going through, which we understand to be sort of the way the court flows anyway. But that's what we're proposing for you today. And we just ask you to give consideration to this. I mentioned to some members on the minority, this work is being done in 50 states. Sometimes it's just combating alternative plans that give things like default 50-50 custody. But often it's this exact bills that we've run and they're being run by people across the political spectrum because this is not only a national problem but an international problem. that even has a UN Commission on Human Rights report about it. So that's a lot. It's been a long, long set of years and a lot of work, and I just really want to thank the people who brought this to my attention, and I hope I can do right by you one more time before peacing out of here. So we ask for an aye vote.

Derek Skelchokother

Committee members, questions for the bill? Thank you Mr. Chair. You mentioned that you had the written findings taken out. I'm curious has there been an updated fiscal note since? Thank you.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

We have the fiscal analyst who agreed to be here. We still have to go to a probes. We're down to .4 I believe. But so if we go to a probes and live another day, we'll keep working on what we need to amend to get that down.

Derek Skelchokother

Rep Kelty. Thank you, Mr. Chair. So I just want to ask on here, and I should have asked this the other day, but it says on here if a party claims or the court has reason to believe that a party has committed domestic violence, child abuse, or neglect or sexual assault that resulted in conception of a child and all that, I guess what is the, and this is maybe just out of my ignorance, but what is it that they are looking at to make sure that it's not a fraudulent claim? Because we've seen in many marriages, divorces and stuff like that, that sometimes they use that as a weapon and it's not true. So what is it that they're determining that it is true, that it's not being used as a weapon?

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Thank you, Mr. Chair, and thank you for the question. I'm sorry, I didn't say thank you for the question, Rep. Thank you for the question. So we see this across the board in domestic violence cases, whether criminal. This is, of course, civil. And we see it in sex assault. And so really, this is where judicial discretion is imperative and where you'll see in the bill language from best practices in terms of domestic violence and sex assault litigation, where you'll see in the bill things like patterns of behavior, series of – it isn't just one allegation. The list is, for your consideration, a preponderance of evidence based on either a series of reports, a series of actions. It rarely are you going to see – we don't see, and we'll have experts that talk about this, but we don't see an allegation causing a change in determination. but rather we see lots of patterns displayed and we even have folks who have extensive medical reports and police reports and still don't get what they believe to be a satisfactory outcome.

Derek Skelchokother

Rep. Espinosa. Thank you, Mr. Chair. Thank you, sponsors, for bringing this bill and for your continued work over the years. in this area. I note that the Colorado Family Bar has not weighed into this determination. Have you had conversations with them, and could you tell the committee what those may have been? Rep. Perlick.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Thank you, Mr. Chair. Thank you, Rep. Espinosa, for the question. Yes, they are responsible for a lot of this work. I thought that they were on the witness list, but they will be chiming. We We do have folks from Family Bar. I don believe Family Bar has made an official declaration but we do have Family Bar folks coming to talk and who helped craft the bill Amy I be in

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you. And so I'm wondering if I can kind of repeat back the steps that you have articulated wanting to take to have the judges take more of a weight of domestic violence into account. And so I think I heard you say the first version, you know, I'm looking at the amendment, but the first version of the bill without the amendment was to say that judges should, you know, write down or enumerate some of their findings on the domestic violence component. And that, you said, took five minutes, a.k.a., right? And so the version of what I see in front of us includes the terms around a finding. And so are you saying that if judges can actually write down what they see in domestic violence or with the amendment come up with a finding, then that should be somehow better used? What is the articulation then when it comes to best interests of the child?

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Thank you. And I should just say one of the reasons that so many advocates in family court, although not official family court, but family court attorneys, practicing family court attorneys, were so keen on the written findings is because these cases go on for decades or longer. And they say if we could point to a written finding, we would save so much time in future litigation. But what we're proposing is that that be a triage point at the very start. So let's determine if this is a case in which these allegations are going to be and counter allegations. And if this is going to be that kind of case. and then let's go here where we're assigning PREs and CFIs and we're conducting investigations and we really want to collect evidence and make a fair finding. Then we go down that road. If in the allocation of parental responsibilities we don't see there aren't these allegations, then we go through that process that is the preponderance of cases in family court. And let's give what we believe to be the proper time and examination of these situations, because they are so thorny, and there are allegations of false allegations and counterclaims, and so much of it relies on really the PRE and the CFI who have gone through domestic violence training, filing their reports and having their findings be really examined.

Derek Skelchokother

Okay. E. Mel Bacon. I think, so I have heard you say the term findings, and I'd be curious to understand how we're defining that. There is a world, and I want to thank the sponsors because we had a chance to chat. You know, when I look at the current definitions under 1410-124, there are the term the court shall find and enumerate specific factual findings. This is some language under best interest as well as determination of parenting time. And so what I trying to discern is it seems like the decision a judge is making is either a determination of what in the best interest of the child or a determination of parenting time the split In all the words that I see around findings, it includes evidence or relations to domestic violence, child abuse, sexual abuse, and XYZ. But I don't know if we mean a finding that a determination of domestic violence has necessarily happened, and particularly in a civil context. And so I am curious, as a matter of law, what we mean by that, and then particularly in the amendment with the determination, because the amendment says when determining whether domestic violence happened versus kind of using the evidence of domestic violence, quote unquote, occurring. And to me, they might be two technically different legal terms. And I'd like to discern because I think what my question is, is now the court in a position to come up with a ruling or a determination that domestic violence happened under a civil context, which is not criminal, right? versus taking the examples into evidence for this determination of best interest versus I have found domestic violence has happened. And if it is the latter, I think I'm curious, and I'm saying this to you maybe to help with the witnesses and for witnesses that are listening, I'm curious then what that means around domestic violence as a civil cause of action generally. And now, you know, where else can that be determined in the civil court? And then how can that evidence be used for crimes, right, where people do have Fifth Amendment rights and the right to remain silent and all of those things with a different burden? And so if you could help either through you or anyone, try to tell me what we mean by finding and what we mean by a determination and a judicial ruling on the issue of domestic violence. I think I'm curious about that, if it existed before or if that's something new that we're creating now. Thank you, Mr. Chair.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Thank you, Rep. Bacon. And thank you for the ongoing discussion. We've been a couple of years at this. I think under this concept as it was described to me, and again, I'm always at a disadvantage in this committee because I am not a lawyer, but there will be a series of determinations, sometimes classified as findings, but I'm not sure on the vocabulary. But what we're sort of saying in this flow is that let's see if this is even a thing. And then if it is, then we're really going to go into this caution zone for these 400 subset of cases in which there seems to be this going on. And it may be determined that actually in that nothing is happening and that that's also under judicial discretion. But so you'll see, I believe the flow goes, let's make a determination if it's that kind of case. Then way down the line after X, Y, and Z, and the evidence has been presented and the judge has talked to all parties and the PRE has been engaged and submitted their report or it may be a CFI, then we get into parenting time. And in those findings on parenting time then the judge is to make a finding that says okay I don really believe the PRE report I don believe the parent making the allegation I decide this. And that's that finding where we're saying, please, in that finding, acknowledge the evidence that has come before you related to domestic violence, which is that long laundry list that it may not look like it's not we don't we're not looking for bruises right we're looking for financial coercion all kinds of things that is that laundry list of how it might present but that's in that findings we we gave up on having it be written but there's still a finding associated with allocating parenting time in which the judge is saying I believe that this is the right thing to do in the best interest of the child.

Derek Skelchokother

Further questions? Rob Garcia. Thank you, Mr. Chair. I just have one question around the recorded finding versus written finding. That doesn't prohibit somebody from accessing the written transcripts from when the finding is recorded, correct? Rob Berlick.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Thank you, Mr. Chair. Thank you, Rep. Garcia. Correct.

Derek Skelchokother

Rep. Slough. Thank you, Mr. Chair. Does the bill allow a court to consider parent good faith disagreement with children as emotional abuse when determining parental responsibilities and parenting time?

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Rep. Frullick. Thank you, Mr. Chair. Can you repeat the question, Rep. Slough?

Derek Skelchokother

Yeah, so I've got four kids. They know everything, right? Like all kids. I mean, when I was a teenager, I knew everything too. I've forgotten a lot of what I knew about everything. If my 15-year-old has an opinion about something that she says, this is absolutely right, this is for me, this is where it is, and I disagree as a parent having 33 more years of wisdom than her, I may guide her. I may direct her towards a different opinion, things like that. She vehemently disagrees and feels sad or threatened or a host of other emotions that people can feel and then says, oh, that's emotional abuse. Is that something that a court is going to consider? even though it is a parental good faith disagreement that I may have with a child, are they going to consider that in the parental responsibilities and parenting time decisions? Thank you, Mr. Chair. Thank you, Repslaw.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

When we first embarked upon this, there were lots of concerns around what I call normal parenting conflicts. And so people said, yeah, they're just going to say they want to go to the parent that lets them play video games all the time and they're going to make this, you know, you're going to screw up this. So that's why we've been very careful in the language that we crafted that we are talking about a series of things. It isn't one incident. It isn't that one time when you said the one mean thing. It is documented. It is evidentiary. and of course, I mean, sometimes much to our chagrin, we maintain judicial discretion. But we spell out very much in the bill that it is abuse and what abuse looks like. And part of the PRE and CFI changes training is to make those distinctions. They have been trained in domestic violence and child abuse and what it looks like. So you see this also in criminal child abuse cases. This is very different from I sent you to bed without dinner or I wouldn't let you watch The Sopranos. This is what has already been established in law as what is considered child abuse or is considered domestic violence. But it would be a factor. So I'm not going to, I mean, I will go on record as saying which parent lets you go to church on Sunday and which parent won't is a factor in when the judge is making custodial decisions. If that's combined with other aspects of coercive control or something else, then that's also for the judge to determine.

Derek Skelchokother

Rep. Slough. Oh, sorry, Rep. Slough, did you want to weigh in on that?

Representative Rep. Storyassemblymember

Thank you. Thank you, Mr. Chair. Representative Slah, thanks for those questions. As Rep. Froelich was saying, you know, it's a series of circumstances. It's not going to be a single incident that is going to be a determining factor. But in these cases that have come before the court, the example that I gave in my opening remarks, there were 36 reports by various professionals, psychologists, psychiatrists, physicians, nurses, teachers, that are mandatory reporters. that reported incidents where they had seen on the child's body signs that potentially there was sexual abuse. Was there a witness to that other than the child? No. How many people invite a witness into a room when they're going to abuse a child sexually? Probably not many. But there were these findings again and again and again of signs that this child had been abused, comments to a teacher that, you know, my father is doing this act, that act. To me, I don't want to go spend the weekend with him. You know, those are documented things where the teacher reported like they're supposed to. so it's teachers are not going to report that your daughter said she didn't like the decision that you made about whatever you know she wanted to watch some movie and you said no that's not going to be in a finding right that's going to be part of it

Derek Skelchokother

Rebsla do you have a follow up thanks Mr. Chair and thanks sponsors for the answers. And you know, maybe, of course, in circumstances where there is evidence of sexual use or more obvious things, that certainly is, you know, weighed and I think obvious. Maybe the little bit of the example to go back to Rep Froelich comment you know I mean Dad makes me go to church mom doesn make me you know and I hate going or whatever it might be I mean that was just the one example you brought up, or yeah, just, I mean, just to use that as just an example and stuff, and I don't like going because it makes me unhappy or sad, or I don't know, or I really, I feel some bad way when I go there and he makes me go. And if he doesn't, and if I don't go, you know, then he doesn't buy me Starbucks or I don't know. I mean, that's kind of a bad example, but like if, if he, if I don't go, if I don't cooperate, then I don't get the same privileges. And, you know, I mean, are some of those more, you know, I mean, we're talking about kids, we could be talking about teenage kids, we could be talking about not quite teenagers, but not young children who do have their own thoughts and their own emotions. And so, you know, I think some of the different types of abuses are more obvious. Some of the ones are a little bit more difficult to determine. And I'm concerned about putting in, making it too easy for, or making it too broad to make sure that parents who are in good faith parenting their children are going to be looked at negatively when determinations for parental responsibility. and parenting time, things like that happen. Rep Frelick.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Thank you, Mr. Chair. Oops, did the opposite. Thank you, Mr. Chair, and thank you, Rep Slaw. I absolutely understand that concern, and it's not something that we have not heard before, but we want to emphasize that it is a factor. I mean, the judge can decide whether name-calling and degrading is a piece of this, And I think we hope that in this course of events that there is no scenario in which name-calling, degrading, or demeaning the individual is the sole reason why the custodial decision has occurred. but in context that your dad always calls you whatever it is or your mom always calls you a demeaning name and restricts your mobility and doesn't allow you to go to your sports and also laid hands on you and also did X, Y, and Z, then I think maybe that parent shouldn't get full custody. Or I don't know how the determinations work, but it is a factor, and you're going to hear folks who say the mere presence of name-calling, degrading, or demeaning is enough to sway the judge's decision, and there's a concern around that. And we just don't believe that having name-calling, degrading, and demeaning as an example, in addition to having surveilling, monitoring, regulating, or threatening to harm or kill, that they all are in the mix and that they all can be parsed out judiciously because we are still down to judicial discretion, is enough to not include those things But we will certainly hear testimony that aligns with your concern Rep Sokai Thank you Mr Chair I just wanted to get some details on what exactly changed in the fiscal note

Derek Skelchokother

I know you said you're down to 0.4, but which of the staff changed? Up for a look.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Thank you, Mr. Chair, and thank you, Rep Sokai. So it's always fun to talk to judicial and have them, and our fiscal analyst is here. Initially, they made a calculation that written findings of what was in the best interest of the child in the presence of domestic violence and child abuse would take five minutes. They extrapolated that times 16,000 cases, I think it says, and then assigned a certain number of hours of magistrate hours. For every magistrate hour, there are three support hours, according to judiciary. And so I guess we should feel lucky that that only came out to $800K. So we removed the written findings, and we're still asking that there be consideration to domestic violence and child abuse allegations that is going to result, according to judicial, in around .4 FTE of a magistrate, which they'll multiply by three. So we're still too much to make it through, appropes, but we will try to amend, continue to amend, and see if there's a way to get it down.

Derek Skelchokother

Ropes, okay. Thank you, Mr. Chair. So that point four is for consideration. Okay. It's okay. Rep. Thank you, Mr. Chair. I'm just, I'm looking through the bill right now, and there's definitely some stuff in here that raises my eyebrows. Page five, line 22 to 25. So threatening to harm or kill the individual or the individual's child or relative. Okay. Completely understand that. including wearing, accessing, displaying, using, or cleaning a weapon in an intimidating or threatening manner. I think that's pretty arbitrary. I mean, I clean my weapons, and if I'm cleaning my weapon in front of a child or something, that's, I mean, just because somebody doesn't like guns, I wonder if that comes across as intimidating. on page 7, line 25 to 27, interference with or controlling or preventing access to reproductive healthcare, including contraceptive use or reproductive healthcare information, or controlling or attempting to control pregnancy outcomes. I mean, a lot of this stuff I don't think is necessarily child abuse. Rep Flanell, we were distributed a strike below.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

I don't think that's a multi-page amendment. Oh, yeah, that's right. But it's okay.

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you, Mr. Chair.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Thank you, Rep. That's all existing statute. I understand that may give you heartburn, but those are the existing definitions in statute. and we just actually had a murder two days ago. A person cleaning their gun just killed their domestic partner. So I think that there's a reason why those things were put in statute in the first place and I can understand again that there may be objections to folks but we going to go with what on the books Okay I have AML Bacon Caltee and Carty AML Bacon

Derek Skelchokother

I have a question for the fiscal analyst. I think I'm just struggling on this writing it down piece. And maybe I misunderstand. So this is a question for the fiscal analyst and the sponsor. Maybe I misunderstand. You're saying you want, originally the bill is asking judges to write down their findings of domestic violence.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

What I'm curious about, or I'm sorry, can you correct that? Thank you, Rep. Bacon. Not quite to write down why they are making this custodial arrangement, even though they have heard testimony about domestic violence. Why they still think it's in the best interest of the child. Okay. So to just legitimate their, the, the find their, their, um, the custodial decision. Okay. Legitimate it, um, when this evidence has been presented.

Derek Skelchokother

So I guess with the, I guess my question is where did this five minutes come from that we're adding? Because what's in current law is they have to write down their specific factual findings supporting the determination of parenting time. That's currently in statute, right? Specifically, the court shall enumerate the specific factual findings supporting the restriction, including findings related to domestic violence, child abuse, and child sex abuse, and may enumerate the conditions that the restricted party could fulfill in order to seek modification of the order, the parenting plan. So if they're already writing down their factual findings, where does five minutes come from? And I'm curious, you know, in your analysis, okay, I can't ask you what I really want to ask you, which is like, do you believe them? But I digress, right? I'm just curious about the point in regards to the time given current statute already has them filling out the paperwork around their findings. So can you elaborate on that? Mr. Chair.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Rep. Froelich. I apologize.

Derek Skelchokother

Carpenter. Carpenter. Mr. Carpenter. You know, Aaron, it's been a while. It has been. Okay. I'm sorry. Thank you, Mr. Chair.

Judy Atwoodother

For the record, Aaron Carpenter, Legislative Council staff. ML Bacon, excellent questions as always. To start on what I received from judicial and how I was approaching the fiscal note for this bill, specifically it's the language on page 12 of the introduced bill where there's new language being added that says, in every case the court shall make specific written findings in an order concerning whether or not blah blah blah blah blah blah so that is what they were pointing to for the additional five minutes to write a finding per the bill and they used judicial judicial officer feedback to kind of determine okay how long does it take for you to make a finding so that was the five minute piece and then on the larger of when finding whether or not there was domestic violence according to a hearing that's a different assumption with a lot smaller amount of case numbers so it's not the 16,000, it's more like 400, but very specifically to the 16,000 for five minutes of written findings, that had to do with that language on page 12.

Derek Skelchokother

Hey, Mel Bacon. So, okay. In the bill on page 12, which is under 1410-124, they're saying that the court has to do a hearing to determine if domestic violence has occurred and then write that in their finding I think one maybe my question is for the sponsor of generally what do we think about having a separate hearing but under current statute 1410-124 they are already doing parenting time determinations where they have to write down these particular findings. So I guess my question is, what is the five minutes actually about that's different? Is it because there's this extra step of a hearing? And have we determined, and I guess my question for the sponsor is, do you believe there's an extra hearing for that, or is that necessary? Or are we talking about the general hearings that take place for best interest because what comes out, the best interest is the standard for parenting time, right? And so if they're already doing proceedings and hearings on this where these evidence can already be presented on this and they're already writing an order, you know what I mean? I'm like, are they saying that it's an extra step in the hearing, you know, I'm just trying to figure that or, and if that's what the bill is trying to do, does, how much does that matter then the extra step? If you want them to actually write down what they have determined about domestic violence, which I'm wondering if it needs an extra hearing at all. And that goes back to my first question of their formal findings. Right. And so I'm just curious, Mr. Carpenter, like, what is it that they described by way of what's happening when they're creating their parenting time orders. You know what I mean? And what they're writing into the order as well as what they may or may not want to write and how to rectify the problem that is already in statute. So I think the question is for both of you all. Rob Froelich. Mr. Carpenter. Mr. Carpenter. Thank you, Mr. Chair. Emil Bacon. I'll try my best. I'm obviously not, you know, seeing what their orders are or what is going currently into orders. In their response, they do point out legislation requiring domestic violence finding made in every domestic relation case involving a child is how they read the bill and how the fiscal note is written. as a result would be required to make a domestic violence finding in all cases where the interests of the child are considered, including both uncontested and contested matters that do not include an allegation of domestic abuse. So that reading makes me think that they're seeing it as like an extra and like all step sort of thing for those five minutes. Yeah. Rep. Frelick.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Thank you, Mr. Chair. Thank you, Rep. Bacon. And you know frankly having tussled with judicial now for seven years on this I figure they don want to do what they don want to do And they going to find a way to make sure in a tough budget year that there a fiscal note and they're going to make it as big as they can. What Mr. Carpenter just said, though, was about all cases. And I heard you talking about flowchart. Is it your intent that there should be a finding in all cases?

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you, Mr. Chair. And I guess what we're getting at is there would be a point at which 14,000 cases, I guess, you are making a determination of whether this is sort of what we said in that flow chart. But again, we did not envision 14,000 cases getting a written determination of whether or not there's domestic violence present. We tried to push back on that. But rather than after that determination has been made, we're into that subset. And then in those 400, we would say, seems like there was a lot going on here. Can you just tell us why you still think it's in the best interest of the child? And so perhaps by – so we envision in this flowchart that we're trying to live with the fact that there will be a determination, according to our bill, for those 400 cases that it just won't be written. And that there was no way we could get a written determination without being – facing repercussions. Now, if we can find a path, we would love to, but also we're going to a probes, and I think if there's a $5 fiscal note on it, it's not going anywhere. Okay. I'm sorry. I want to repeat. Maybe I'm going to phrase it this way, and you tell me if this is what you want to see done, because this is what I heard. They're getting cases. You don't know what they are until the evidence is presented. And then if the evidence is presented on domestic violence, then they're going to look into that, right? And then current law says they need to write down their factual findings supporting whatever it is they come up with parenting time. So, one, that doesn't sound like all to me, which is why I'm looking at you, okay? But then I want to understand kind of a little bit of like what it is that's not happening, given that they're supposed to write down their factual findings supporting their parenting plan already in law. Like what is so one, what is actually not happening, let alone it's not all. And I'm wondering if we need to be clear on that for an amendment for what I just heard, what you were analyzing, because it doesn't make. Am I right? I mean, are you saying that all cases should be looked at for a lens or are we saying that the cases that come, evidence is presented and now there's an issue of DV? Because that's not all. You know what I mean? That is, okay. 400. Let the record show I see. I'm not going to do that to you. Okay. Right. But, and so that's what I'm trying to understand. I'll say what we were thinking and then Mr. Armstrong should say what Carpenter. And I literally wrote down, Meg, it's Armstrong. I'm sorry, Mr. Carpenter. Why do I think Armstrong? Because that's the other analyst. I'm so sorry. You're not all the same. but so the way we crafted the multi amendment to make up for this confusion we think that at that point of allocating parenting time which they do write out but they don write out even though I heard that the dad the one parent did this I still find in the best interest of the child They don't write it out that way. They just say, I'm giving this, this, and this. They don't say, I'm disagreeing with the medical report. I'm disagreeing with the PRE report. I don't believe X, Y, and Z. Last point. This, to me, though, doesn't sound like what he just said as to why there's a cost. Right? And so I guess for me, it's like, how can we write that amendment to be clear? because you're saying they got to look at all cases. That's not what she's saying. If they're already writing orders, you know what I mean? And so I want to know how to help you with this fiscal note, and that's why I asked the analysts, what are you responding to? Because it doesn't seem like what it is that they're asking, but I got it. Okay, thank you, Mr. Carpenter.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Sorry, thank you, Mr. Chair, and thank you, Rep. Bacon. I would look forward to that discussion. Certainly the advocates came back and said, can't we fight the fiscal note? We said I think the best way to fight the fiscal note is to take out the written part because that seems to be what features heavily. Maybe we are miscued there. We would love to live another day and work on that. Thank you, Mr. Chair.

Derek Skelchokother

I just want to put on the record, I'm a pretty nice guy. You don't have to fight me. But yeah, I think clarity around the language of in every case, I think, is where things are getting hung up on page 12. And what that means in every case where domestic violence is alleged or is it any case where a, you know, in any case where a court is making a determination of the best interest of the child. And, you know, if it's, you know, every case where it's just if domestic violence has been raised, like, I agree, it's a lot smaller subset, 400 times five minutes divided by 60. It's not half an FDA magistrate at that point. Yes, I do agree that, like, clarity around that would help. Okay. Rep Espinosa. Okay. Thank you, Mr. Chair. Thank you, Mr. Carpenter. her, I guess I'm trying to get a handle just on what the actual bill that we're looking at now has, because page 11 in that language has been stricken from what I can see in relationship to this issue, because that was stricken by the amendment. So that language no longer exists. It may give you a handle to look at this. However, when I looked at the bill, and even I look at the amendment, there is a requirement that does not come in small letters but is in bold letters, so I would assume is new requirements, that the judges must also articulate additional factors that should they make these findings will be part of that order. And it also goes directly to what you were just saying, that part of the concern from the advocates and the people is there's not specificity in the orders currently directed by the statute. And so that part of what this bill is attempting to do was or was attempting to do is direct the judges on specific types of findings that they would have to make And I just wonder first of all am I correct in so far reading the bill as it been a proposed amendment and where we're kind of at at this point?

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Rep. Follick. Thank you. Thank you, Mr. Chair, and thank you, Rep. Espinosa. Correct. In the multi-page amendment, we are still asking there be a finding of whether the party has committed domestic violence. And I know that that was a matter of concern. We still feel that that is the whole point of our movement, is to please do not ignore domestic violence and abuse when making child custody determinations.

Derek Skelchokother

Mr. Chair. Rep. Espinoza. So as I look at the bottom of page three in the amendment, in order to get to that ascertainment, you are also recommending, but not mandating now in this order, in the amended version, that the judge still make specific types of findings. In that context, there would be additional time allocation from what the existing statute requires. Isn't that correct?

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Rep. Frelick. Thank you, Mr. Chair. Thank you, Rep. Espinosa. are correct, and that has led to a 0.4 at the moment. So whether we tweak that language, go this other route of saying it only applies to this incredibly small subset of folks, or whether we give up altogether because 0.4 to FTE is still going to not happen this year. But what the advocates, what the folks are still trying to get at what we've always been trying to get at is please recognize the significant events of domestic violence and abuse and what that should mean we one would hope to

Derek Skelchokother

custody decisions. Rep Espinosa. And thank you and I do find the financial or the fiscal impact interesting but I do think it's more important for us as a committee to be looking at that underlying policy that's trying to be attained. But in looking at the under-lying policy, it's also important to acknowledge that there will be workload impact on the judiciary and that the reduction from what was originally proposed to the point four may be an adequate reduction based on your modification in the amendments. And so I think I just want to remind all of us that our job is trying to look at where the amendments fit with the situations. So I do just have something that's now off that to get back to the policy, which I know when we talked about it, you said you were moving the definition sections, and I'm just trying to figure out how they read together between the original bill and your amendment. If you could just clarify that for me, that would be very helpful because I don't see a citation to a no code section, and so I just want to make sure I understand where the new amendments will be in the statute.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Rob Froelich? Thank you, Mr. Chair. Thank you, Rep. Espinosa. I believe it is placing the – that it all has to do with 1.4, this Section 3, these first four lines on the amendment. That was our effort to put all aspects, all previously stated, at all aspects of what has been defined as domestic violence in one place. Now maybe I am inaccurate and I will phone a friend while we listen to witnesses or the witnesses who helped us craft the bill will also – who said please do that will also be here.

Derek Skelchokother

Rob Carter. Thank you, Mr. Chair. My question is related to the judicial discretion piece. If I'm wrong, correct me. The request that you are asking that after a determination is made by the judge of a finding of sexual assault, domestic violence, or child abuse, the judge can still impose those conditions even if those findings have not been made.

Representative Rep. Storyassemblymember

Rep. Prolick.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Thank you, Mr. Chair, and thank you, Rep. Carter. I know we've been having discussions about this. Our problem is not that the judge is overly – statistically, we have not seen the judge overly concerned with making findings to determine their custody overcompensating. And we have just been jumping up and down to ask that consideration be given to domestic violence and child abuse in the custody arrangements. so I think what you're saying is could they have been doing this all along? Absolutely. Can they, as my understanding, part of custodial things say this is the arrangement now after you complete anger management we can reconsider we have all sorts of things like that occurring what we're saying is that we're trying to address the problem where there seems to be a lot of evidence of abuse and violence and yet those are ignored in the custodial arrangement.

Representative Rep. Storyassemblymember

Rep. Carter. Thank you, Mr. Chair. Thank you, Representative Froelich. I don't want to go down that rabbit hole, but the judges already have the ability to impose these conditions. what you're saying is you believe that based on their judicial discretion, they just aren't willing to or they're not willing to look at what you think they should be looking at?

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Rep. Frelick. Thank you, Mr. Chair. Thank you, Rep. Carter. We believe that due to societal and other existing prejudices about hysterical women and the preponderance of parental alienation in theorists in family court, that the pendulum has swung way over. and that we see over and over again dismissals of abuse and violence accredited to vengeful spouses, which is a very successful way to get your way in family court. And that's what we've been trying to combat for 70 years now.

Representative Rep. Storyassemblymember

Vice Chair Carter Thank you Mr Chair Thank you again Representative Story Representative Froelich my last question is more of if we are going to task the judges with now not just making a finding but also adhering specifically related to those three DV sex assault, how does that hearing not affect that additional hearing? How does that not affect the amount of time the judicial officer is going to spend on that case? Thank you.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

We do not propose, and if it needs to be clarified, we do not propose an additional hearing. We believe in the course of these hearings that are taking place anyway, determining custody, and these factors are brought into custody hearings all the time, right? And we're just saying in the course of this hearing, when you hear this stuff, please be aware of the definition of domestic violence as laid out in statute. And so when someone brings you any of this evidence, please refer back to statute and understand that coercive control, financial manipulation, et cetera, are forms of domestic violence. And please consider that when making custody arrangements. But it is in a separate hearing to see whether or not the person did this stuff.

Representative Rep. Storyassemblymember

Rep. Kelty. Thank you, Mr. Chair. And so here's my question. I'm going through, like, who may have been stakeholder and who may have been contacted and talked to. And I'm going through the Secretary of State site. Like, there's so many people against this, from the counties to Colorado. Well, the Colorado Organization of Victim Assistance, they're monitoring. I mean, there's no one in support. They're all monitoring. They're not even saying that they support this spell. And then I look at the witnesses that are coming today, and the groups that I would think would be in support of something that, you know, dealing with domestic abuse and that kind of stuff, they're all against it. So why do you believe that all the, I mean, there's like Colorado Parent Advocacy Network, Christian Home Educators Colorado, Colorado Catholic Conference. I mean, there's just so many. So why is it that these groups that I would think would be in support, have you a stakeholder with them? Have you talked to them? Why are they against your bill so badly?

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Rep. Prolick. Thank you, Mr. Chair. Thank you, Rep. Kelty. Yes, we have a difference of opinion with those organizations. Those are 50-50 parenting folks and folks with difference of opinion on this, and they've long held those difference of opinions. Some of it's men's rights groups and folks who allied with Project 2025 folks. So, yeah, they'll be coming in and testifying against.

Representative Rep. Storyassemblymember

Other questions? Okay. Seeing none, we'll head to the witness testimony phase.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Yep. And I did just, I'm sorry, Mr. Chair. I did get clarification because, as I said, I would phone a friend. And it was all moved to 1410-103 instead of being all over the place in Title 14. Okay.

Derek Skelchokother

And Rep Froelich you wanted to do all against the bill and then all in support Okay Amend and then support Okay All right Carl Roberts, Christy Neely, Nathan Fisher, Colleen Enos. All of these witnesses are signed up in person. And online, Lori Gimmelstein. Julie Grayson and Derek Scalchuk. Okay, is there anyone else in the room who wishes to testify in opposition to this bill? Nathan said he'll be out and be back. He's here in the building. Okay. I think I saw two hands of people who wanted to testify in opposition to the bill. if you all could come forward just so that we could fill our panel. Yep, you in the back. Okay, come forward. Anyone else in opposition to the bill here in person? Okay. Rosemary Van Gorder online. Sven Sharpen online. Okay. Let's start with the witness on my right. State your name, any organization you represent. You will have three minutes, and you may begin. Yep. The button is right by where the mic plugs in. It's like a little gray button under that tiny red light. There you go.

Judy Atwoodother

Hi, members of the committee. Thank you for your time in allowing me to speak today. My name is Judy Atwood. I live in Boulder County, and I am here as a policy director of SAFE, a nonprofit organization. I originally listed my position on this bill as a mend, but after further analysis and serious consideration of the risk it presents, I now urge you to oppose. I also want to say this clearly. My testimony is offered in good faith and in public interest. It is not personal, and it should not be used as a pretext for bully, blaming, or shaming on social media. HB 21-1228, HB 23-1108, HB 23-1178, and HB 24-1350 were all framed as, excuse me, reforms to improve training, qualifications, oversight, disclosures, evidence, quality, and safety analysis with the existing best interest framework. HB 26-1309 departs from that model. It broadens abuse definitions and makes a low-threshold domestic violence finding the front-end gateway of custody presumption. That is a serious contradiction. This bill is presented as a safety measure, but structurally it does something very different. before the court even begins the ordinary best interest analysis, the judge must first decide whether the parent committed domestic violence If the judge makes that finding by preponderance of evidence the bill triggers a presumption against allocation of parental responsibilities to a parent That is not a small procedural change It front loads a low threshold, high consequence, finding and places that rest of the case on statutory rails. Family court is not criminal court. Yes, yet, excuse me, HB 26 1309 asks it to do criminal adjacent work under a civil standard with life changing consequences for parents and children. And this concern does not exist in a vacuum. Several legislators and advocacy groups supporting this bill also signed the September 2nd, 2024 letter to the chief justice. stating that judges are not following the law and that family court is dangerous. That is their premise. The answer cannot be to give those courts broader labels, lower threshold findings, and stronger presumptions. For those reasons, I respectfully ask you to vote no. Thank you.

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you, Ms. Atwood. Good. Okay, moving over. Our next witness, state your name. Any organization you represent, you will have three minutes.

Christy Neelyother

Hi, my name is Christy Neely. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to testify. I just want to start by saying I'm up here often to do the things that this bill says it wants to do, to protect children. So that is my heart. That's the main reason that I am here. But when I read through this, there's so much that's good, and then there's so much that is not. and that's where my concern is. When we talk about true domestic violence, true coercion and harm, those need to be addressed as serious and prevented wherever possible. Protecting children and family matters deeply to me, but this bill goes beyond abuse and in doing so it risks redefining good parenting as something harmful. In section two, the bill creates a category called health-related abuse, which includes interference with or controlling access to medical care, mental health care, even reproductive care, including pregnancy outcomes. That is incredibly broad. As parents, we're responsible for guarding our children to complex and serious decisions. That includes medical care. It means asking questions, setting boundaries. That is not coercion. That's care. The language could even apply in deeply serious moral situations. For example, a father who tries to advocate for the life of his pre-born child could be accused of controlling pregnancy outcomes. That's in quotes because that's literally in the bill. Under this bill, that would trigger mandatory intervention programs and label him as an abuser. That's not addressing violence. It's punishing beliefs and involvements. The bill also defines coercive control in a way that includes monitoring a child's, quote, access to service. The parents are supposed to be monitoring their children's life. That's just part of keeping them safe. Under such a broad definition, a parent who doesn't affirm certain medical or identity-related decisions, such as those involving gender, could risk being accused of coercive control and even losing custody. That should concern all of us, regardless of our personal views. When disagreement becomes abuse, when guidance becomes control, then we've crossed a serious line. We should absolutely protect families from real harm. But we must not create laws that erode the fundamental roles of parents or punish them for being involved, thoughtful, and protective. So I urge you to vote no on HB 26 1309 unless these sections, Section 2, are removed or significantly narrowed to clearly distinguish true abuse from responsible parenting. Again, I just want to go over that line again. My biggest issue is the fact that we're changing the definitions of abuse. So where there has been proven abuse, I would 100% agree that that needs to be taken into consideration with custody. But how we define that abuse, monitoring or having a difference of opinion, that's where it gets very concerning as a parent. So thank you for hearing me today.

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you. Okay, next witness over. You will have three minutes. State in the organization you represent. You may begin.

Colleen Enosother

Thank you, Chair and members of the committee. My name is Colleen Enos, and I represent Christian Home Educators of Colorado. We support home discipleship that is Christ-centered, parent-directed, and free from government control. We would urge a no vote on HB 26-1309. This bill includes a lower burden of proof that triggers a near-automatic bar on parenting time and decision-making. So there is a base assumption in this bill that you are guilty until you are proven innocent. That requires the difficult task of rebutting the presumption of guilt, which is unfair on its face. The accused parent must prove that their custody time and their parenting is in the child's best interest, despite the assumption of domestic violence. This could enable weaponization and custody disputes, especially with 73% of all litigants unrepresented. The definition of domestic violence in this bill is expanded to include a larger definition of coercive control. The law does not require a criminal conviction of domestic violence to be found to assume guilt. Non-physical, controlling, or tech-based behaviors now clearly count as domestic violence. The significantly expanded definition of coercive control includes isolating children from family or friends, monitoring finances, activities, communications, regulating everyday behavior, and economic control. These vague descriptions could capture things that a good mom or a dad does just to parent their children. They can also be very subjective in high-conflict divorces, and they could assume the guilt of someone who is actually innocent. Coercive control also refers to, quote, reproductive health care, unquote, which includes gender identity and gender expression. A parent could be found guilty if they disagree with a spouse or a child, and they believe in God-ordained genders. The bill raises the stakes significantly for non-custodial parents. The accused parent must complete a year-long domestic violence program and individual therapy if they are assumed guilty. Due to the increased likelihood of innocent parents being assumed guilty, we would urge a no vote on HB 26-1309. Thank you.

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you, ma'am. Maybe go to Derek Skellshock. You can state your name who you represent You have three minutes sir Thank you Chair and members of the committee My name is Derek Skelchok I a Colorado parent and a 13 combat veteran

Kat Clomacoother

I'm here to respectfully oppose HB 26-1309. I want to be clear, protecting victims of real abuse is critical, but this bill, as written, creates serious risks within the reality of family court. I'm living that reality. In my case, repeated allegations have resulted in findings of domestic violence under preponderance of the evidence standard. Even where I've provided direct communication that contradicts those claims, what I've experienced is not a system requiring clear, verifiable proof before making serious findings. It is a system where interpretation and narrative can outweigh objective evidence. There have been situations involving high volumes of communication, dozens of messages, repeated contact in short periods of time that were still characterized in a way that resulted in me being labeled the abusive party. At the same time, agreements involving our child, such as equal parenting time, have been presented, implemented, and then withdrawn with new allegations following disagreement arise. The result is instability, not just for me, but for my son. My son has told me he feels he has to hide communication with me because he's afraid of how his mother will react. No child should be placed in that position, feeling like they must choose sides or conceal a relationship with a parent. That is not protection. That is a child caught in the middle. My concern is that this bill expands already subjective categories of abuse, such as coercive control, economic abuse, and technological abuse. while maintaining a low evidentiary standard and adding legal presumptions. That combination creates a structure where allegations can carry significant legal weight before being rigorously tested. In high-conflict custody cases, that risks shifting the focus away from objective evidence and toward competing narratives between parents. When that happens, children can become the ones who are overlooked. We risk creating a system that is very effective at responding to allegations, but not always effective at recognizing when a child is being impacted in less visible but very real ways. Children need stability. They need to feel safe loving both parents. They should never feel like they have to hide communication, manage adult conflict, or carry emotional pressure. This bill is written increases the likelihood that a child in that position becomes overlooked rather than protected. We can protect victims of real abuse while still requiring clear evidence, careful review, balanced decision making.

Derek Skelchokother

Right now, this bill does not strike that balance. For those reasons, I respectfully ask that you vote no to HB 261309. And thank you for your time. Thank you. Is there a Julie Grayson? Yes, can you hear me? State your name, who you represent. You have three minutes. Yes, my name is Julie Grayson. I'm the Executive Director of the Family Preservation Alliance. I am also a public defender representing the falsely accused, many of which who have stemmed from the family court, and I'm a court-appointed special advocate for children. I respectfully and strongly oppose Bill HB 26 and I thank this committee for their time in order to get this right for all citizens of the state of Colorado who unfortunately are going through the family court system The fallout of this bill does not protect children and I truly believe that everybody here testifying is concerned about the interests of children. In my years in family court, I have seen parents and their attorneys use false allegations at the onset of family court cases to weaponize children as well as the other parent as a leg up in a custody battle. One of the nuances I want to bring up to this committee is a violation of a protective order falsely obtained in the family court lands in criminal court in proceedings with lifetime ramifications for children and parents. I defend the wrongfully accused time and time again in family court, and the low burden of proof in this bill can result in a child losing half of themselves and their identity with complete blocked access to a fit, loving parent. Another nuance that I would like this committee to consider is that in the family court in many other states, you could get a protective order against the other parent wrongfully accused. And in the order, there is a separate section where you can put that the child still has access to the child because the domestic violence allegation was lodged at the other parent. In crafting bills in the future, I would like this seriously considered overall. This bill does nothing but harm children, harm parents who are desperately seeking justice in the family court, in the family courts. Lastly, I would like this committee to consider there are completely different standards of proof in family court and in criminal court. It is my suggestion going forward even though I staunchly oppose this bill, that once an allegation of domestic violence is lodged in the family court, just an allegation, that there is a stay in the family court proceedings and by beyond a reasonable doubt standard, this case is bumped to the prosecutor's office for their proper investigation and training to see what is true abuse allegations. I thank you for your time. Thank you. Is there anyone in person who would like to testify against this bill? Did you want to come forward, ma'am? If you can state your name, who you represent, you'll have three minutes. There we go. My name is Patty McKernan. I live in Centennial. I'm a parent. I'm a board member of Protect Kids Colorado, but I'm here representing my own views. We are here again. Here we are again. We're trying to place the government as the parent. The government can't love our children. Only parents can love their children. Now some parents stop loving each other and give and out of emotion use children as weapons I sat through and testified at many parental rights hearings here in this chamber and have seen firsthand that children should not be used as property or as weapons in these parental rights cases or these custody cases. most recently I was here listening to how we shouldn't punish child rapists because they're often falsely accused so I want to just state once again that there are many conditions under which people are accusing each other of violating lots of I'm sorry my testimony is I It just came from the chrism mass. I don't have it written out. And I'm just talking off the top of my head. So my point is when you're talking about custody situations with parents, there are often problems coming into those hearings. And the children are the victims. And I am only here to represent that the parents that love their children need to be respected, and it's not the government's role to become the parent of the children and make decisions. Yes, there are custody battles. Yes, there are legal hearings that are going to hear the evidence. But I don't think it's the role of this government, this hearing, this legislative committee to make these decisions. And I just respectfully ask you to vote no on HB 26 1309. Thank you. Members, do we have questions for this panel? Representative Flannell. Thank you, Mr. Chair. My question is for, I believe it's Miss Julie Grayson, I believe, who's the DA? I think she said she was a public defender. Oh, okay. So a public defender. So I'm just curious. So what protections are in place? I know you kind of hit, you touched upon this, but what protections are in place if a child is, you know, being, like if they are in a domestic violence situation? I think you mentioned that there are some kind of orders that they could put into place to get the child out of that situation. Can you just expand on that, please? Julie Grayson. Yes, can you hear me? Yes. Yes. So that's a very good question. There are many things that they can do to protect the child. Typically, there are investigations opened up by CPS, and if they feel that it has risen to the level of an abuse situation, the judge does call in in the family court the specialist in that area. There is a closed-door session, and they make a determination as to what they're going to do with regard to the safety of the child. That comes in many forms. Sometimes, let's say, depending on the age of the child, and of course they do interview them, they have a supervised visitation with a parent. Other times they make sure that there is some kind of temporary order in place in the family court to get more of an analysis through mental health professionals to look at the family dynamics to protect the child, and then sometimes incredibly serious. It does rise to the level of extending to the prosecutor's office where they do, there are charges filed and there could be an arraignment or other things going on on the criminal end. Representative Flannell. No. Thank you. Representative Kelty. Thank you, Ms. Chair. And I think this question may go to Ms. Atwood. In your testimony, you mentioned that this bill would actually lessen the standard, I guess you could say, in determination for domestic violence. in the best could you expound on that for me please I know you only get two minutes so if you can explain that a little bit further for me I'd appreciate it Ms. Edwood thank you sorry in the domestic so the family court the judicial officers are trained in the best interest of of the analysis of a child. So what this... If you could just speak into the microphone, please. I'm so sorry. I'm so new at this. One month on my job. So in family court, the best interest analysis is guiding our judicial officers. Here, what we're asking the judicial officers to do before they even do that analysis is to make a determination if domestic violence has occurred. And one of the things that has not come up is that a normal parent, like a parent, when they're asking for the preponderance of evidence, and that includes CPS reports, if I'm a parent and I get my CPS reports, they're redacted. So they're basing this determination of domestic violence on paper and on redacted statements. To me, that's a huge problem. Rep. Kelty. Thank you. Thank you for that. And I do know, like, I think Ms. Grayson and Ms. Enos also kind of touched on that as well, as far as, like, people being falsely accused in domestic violence already, and you feel that this would actually give them more of a tool to be able to falsely accuse them more. can you go into that a little bit more please i apologize who's that for cnose yeah mcinos mcinos or miss grayson thank you for the question rep kelty the colorado court system now is already um taking away children in custody decisions based on some of these items gender affirming care, gender identity, and saying if you don't affirm, then you are not a safe parent. So that's already happening in the current system. And the vague language that's included in this bill with coercive control is just going to expand that. And I believe Rep. Slaw brought up the whole idea that this could be weaponized, you know, parents against each other, especially in really difficult divorces. I mean, recognizing that there are a lot of emotions happening and false accusations could be flying Putting in place this kind of a vague bill with these types of definitions is only going to exacerbate that It not going to make it better So we want to protect kids. We want kids to be safe, but we also want parents to be able to parent. We want them to continue to have a relationship with their child after a divorce happens and we've already had that happen in this state. Kids are being taken away or non-custodial parents are being denied parenting rights because of just that thing and this is worse. It'll make it worse. Rep Kelty. Any other questions for this panel? I see none. Thank you panel. Is there a Christopher Prophet? Christina Rocco. Francisco Diaz. Brittany Vesely. What is this? Donald Murphy. You got to give me an up or down. Yeah, I'm here. William Head. Carl Roberts. Kristi Neely. Sorry. Aaron Gazelka. Is there anyone here to testify in an amend position that is in person? Is there anyone here to testify in an amend position that is in person? Can you come forward? Do you want to amend the bill or are you against it or for it? Are you on the list? Come forward. No. State your name and who you represent. You have three minutes. It's to your right, right, where the red button is, right there. Thank you. Sorry. Good afternoon, members of the committee. Thank you for allowing me time to share my thoughts on amending House Bill 26-1309. My name is Erin Gazelka. I'm representing myself. I'm here as a listed DVUMB-approved provider at the domestic violence clinical supervisor level. I'm a mental health professional, a licensed professional counselor, a licensed addiction counselor. I hold degrees as a Juris Doctorate and a Master of Arts in Forensic Clinical Psych. I've been serving criminal justice-involved clients through assessment and therapy for 19 years in Colorado, the past nine years devoted to domestic violence offenders. As drafted 26 appears to propose a new abuse intervention for a 52 individual therapeutic treatment within civil parental responsibility cases As described it diverges from established evidence practices for rehabilitation and victim safety This 52-week designation is confusing language that appears connected to psychoeducation models of intervention in other states. Research indicates interventions in power and control behavior are best treated in group settings with successful completion measured by actual clinical progress. not time counted on a calendar. This bill inadvertently creates an unregulated abuse intervention system in the civil space incongruent to the DVMB system of treatment for criminal domestic violence cases. This sets the stage for criminal and civil cases to have fundamentally incompatible statutory mandates and two parallel systems of abuse intervention and direct conflict with one another. And aligned with the Department of Public Safety's proposals addressing the clinical and jurisdictional gaps posed by this bill, the amendments do not seek to expand the DVMB's purview into civil court, rather to ensure that civil mandates are congruent with established evidence-based practices, I strongly recommend the proposed amendments to ensure the use of an evaluation to determine risk and matching the dose of treatment to that evaluation. I'm also aligned with clarifications that anger management, self-paced virtual courses, and couples therapy are not suitable alternatives to domestic violence therapy. Knowing those amendments are already proposed, I'll take my moment to explain two things. specifically first domestic violence clients are a specialized population there's a continuum of relationship behavior that ranges from normal power dynamics to eventually crossing a line into domestic violence dynamics that includes coercive control abuse and use of violence people trained in typical relationship and family interventions frequently have a complete lack of awareness of domestic violence dynamics and how dramatically they differ it takes significant training and supervision to understand and recognize these dynamics and assessment and treatment intervention requires process therapy and it far exceeds what's seen in basic psychoeducation like what we observe in other states domestic violence interventions. As a supervisor this is the most complicated clinical supervision I've provided in my entire career. Second I don't want DVUMB providers to be restricted from engaging in this important civil work and I don't want to see domestic violence providers be the only people who can and thus be required to provide the services under the civil statute with a little clarity on how to verify the determination of those services. There are DVUMB providers who want to work in this space and they do it well. There are many of us that don't. I have two sentences. Clients in the civil system actually often pose increased risks and more concerning behavior than criminal clients without the same levels of guardrails afforded by the criminal justice system. In closing, domestic violence dynamics are different than normed relationship dynamics and require specialized training and supervision for those intervening to protect victims. So thanks again for your time. Thank you. If you can state your name, who you represent, you will have three minutes. Hi, my name is Andrea Bradbury, and I'm here representing myself today. I'm testifying in my individual capacity on House Bill 261309, and I am in an amend position. I have been in victim services for 30 years, and there's nothing that I want more than for this body to protect victims, especially children. My heart breaks hearing some of the stories that are the reason that the sponsors have brought this bill forward. But I do have a couple of concerns the way that this bill is written. My first concern is that mandating treatment prior to a formal assessment and recommendation is made regarding an individual risk or criminogenic needs is doing a disservice The process of a forensic evaluation is what drives the accountability and individual treatment This bill omits this very step By legislating clinical processes, the statute forces mental health providers to apply interventions blindly, which in turn ignores specific behavioral indicators and lethality factors that would normally be detected by a forensic evaluation. And do we know that those said mental health providers have the experience and the knowledge necessary to provide DV-specific treatment and not just anger management or other general types of treatment? Who would be overseeing those providers to make sure that they do have the knowledge and experience that they need in order to give the treatment? Part two of this, in my eyes, is basically that we're whitewashing everything together. This is a one-size-fits-all, 52-week mandate that is not allowing for the abusers to get the help that they potentially actually need. There are varied risk levels for all domestic violence offenders. For example, with this bill, a low-risk offender is given the same treatment as a high-risk offender. This type of overprogramming could actually do more harm than good and may increase recidivism. When requiring the 52-week mandate time frame, the bill fails to provide the court with the needed data necessary for decision making. The bill only offers a time-served metric, which may leave the court without a mechanism to determine if an individual's risk has been mitigated or if abuse patterns persist. So I urge you to not pass this bill as is, but to help to make sure that it has the guardrails and parameters that we need in order to make it work effectively and protect those very victims and children that we're trying to. Thank you. Thank you, Ms. Bradbury. Ma'am, if you can state your name, who you represent, you have three minutes. I'm going to need you to press the red button. The gray button underneath the red light. Underneath the red light, sorry. Thank you, you got it. Did I do it? Okay. Hi, sorry. My name is Jesslyn Houck, and I'm self-representing. And I usually do come in here a lot more prepared, better decorum. But I just found out about this bill last night at about 1130, and then I had to go to my job this morning. And I read over it, and I can't speak on the specifics. The reason I didn't participate this much is because of a very recent death in my family. And so I'm just going to tell you my experience and let you apply that to concerns that other people have expressed. I was falsely accused and arrested for domestic violence and child abuse about five years ago. I proved that there was police help in that setup. They were formally reprimanded. The elect DA dismissed my charges not because there was a lack of witnesses, a lack of procedural failure, anything. They went on the record, I have the transcripts, that it's dismissed because I was set up and he's actually the abuser, the one that accused me. And, you know, I have all of the, anything I see I have documented. I paid 10K adjusting transcripts. When I went over the bill, and I had to do it briefly, I was reading it, and I was like, yes, some of these things are very good for survivors on the other end. But in someone in my situation, when I'm unfairly accused of that, and by the way, I have my kids over 300 days out of the year by now, when initially I was stripped from them for false allegations. And this bill, and this is not, like, this is a common situation, and if this bill passes the way it is, I would be treated even worse for something I didn't do. And that's the quick feeling I got from the synopsis. And I'm sorry for being so unprepared. Like, I'm a victim to advocate. I worked for the DA. I apologize for how I'm dressed even. but like I just didn't I didn't have the time to prepare I learned about this last night because I was checked out dealing with funeral and probate law um but if you can get if you can get the gist of my story um I think it says something that I was initially accused got my kids taken away for over a year and a half and then they figured out that it was literally a setup corroborated or helped by the police. And if this bill passes, it's going to make innocent people like me be treated even worse by the system. And that's not as eloquent as I like, but that's what it is, end time. Thank you, ma'am. And Mr. Fisher, state your name, who you represent, and you'll also have three minutes. Thank you, Mr. Chair, and thank you for your grace for allowing me to join late. My name is Nathan Fisher, and I work as the Associate Director of the Colorado Catholic Conference, and I am testifying in opposition to 1309 today. 1309 is intended to address domestic violence in family court proceedings, particularly in cases involving children, child custody, and parental responsibilities. Yet two sections present grave violations of sanctity of life and parental rights. Under Section 2, health-related abuses, 1309 states, interference with or controlling and preventing access to reproductive health care, including contraceptive use of reproductive health care information or controlling or attempting to control reproductive outcomes is considered health-related abuse. This can make a male partner attempting to save the life of his preborn child or even grandparents attempting to save the life of their preborn grandchild. If a man was accused of health-related abuse for attempting to save his preborn child's life from abortion, he would be required to participate in individual therapeutic treatment with a mental health professional who holds a master's or doctoral degree and a certain mental health license type. has a specialized training and expertise in treating survivors at domestic violence and its effects, and has completed a 52-week domestic violence abuser intervention program. 1309 also considers it to be coercive control for a parent to monitor their child's access to services. It defines coercive control as a pattern of behavior that takes away the individual's liberty or freedom and strips away the individual's sense of self, including the individual's bodily integrity and human rights. A parent who does not affirm their child's trans identity under this section could have parental custody removed. We have already dealt with this in HB 26, 13, 12, and 25, 13, 12, and 26018. Both bills have had the same parental custody question stripped from the text because of hundreds of Coloradans' public outcry. This bill is another example in an attempt to remove parental rights if the parent disagrees with their minor child on gender ideology except it is more deceptive because it does not directly address the concerns parents have with their children gender ideology We should be concerned whenever government policy is to remove children from their family, not for abuse or neglect, but because parents and children disagree about deeply personal beliefs. Removing Section 2 of this bill would be good policy, consistent with the will of all Coloradans who already opposed two similar bills. On behalf of the Colorado bishops, we respectfully ask the committee to vote no today. Thank you. Thank you, sir. Is there a Donald Murphy? Yes. Thank you. State your name, who you represent. You have three minutes. Dr. Don Murphy. I represent myself. I'm a geriatrician, hospice physician who's been serving Colorado for over 40 years. based on one false allegation. I had my career and $2 million stolen from me by Attorney General Phil Weiser. All of the victims of Phil Weiser, he's responsible for the corrupt judiciary. In that, we victims are not granted our constitutional rights, Fifth and 14th Amendment rights, due process. So one false allegation leads to us being in this corrupt judiciary, particularly family courts, where there's no due process. You're only hearing one side of the story. What Phil Weiser is doing is tearing apart families who are already in distress. Divorce, right? He is destroying careers. Mine is just one example. I'll get back to practicing medicine after we have a new administration in 2027. But my goal right now is to explain that the man in control of our judicial system is a white-collar criminal. Many in Colorado know this, and I'm going to get on with explaining that to everyone in Colorado. So that in 2027, when we are caught in the courts, controlled by Phil Weiser and embraced by Governor Jared Polis, I mean, really, he knows about this craziness. It's called gaslighting. We will have a government that honors our constitutional rights. So I'm excited about the future, but I'm really worried about all these victims of Phil Weiser. We're working on a number of things like class action suits and many other ways back to justice in this state. And I would say that what's happened to our Colorado Democratic Party is that you present the worst case scenario. All right. Bad stuff happens in life. What you're ignoring is the thousands of lives and careers and businesses that are being torn apart by Bill Weiser. That's all I got to say. Thank you. Thank you, sir. Is that a Miss Vesely? Can you state your name, who you represent? And you have three minutes, ma'am. Thank you, Mr. Chair. My name is Brittany Vesely. I'm the Executive Director of the Colorado Catholic Conference, and I'm testifying in opposition to HB 1309. Last year, over 700 Coloradans came to this committee in opposition of HB 1312 over the exact same language that we now see in HB 1309 concerning so-called coercive control and parental custody decisions. Last month, Senate Bill 18 was again stripped of the same language following a public outcry. HB 1309 targets parents for normal parenting decisions, including but not limited to affirming their child trans identity if the state determines that the parents well beliefs on human sexuality discriminates against transgender ideology This is a massive violation of First Amendment and constitutional precedent protecting parental rights from state overreach including Troxel v. Granville, which held that parents have a fundamental right to make decisions concerning the care, custody and control of their children. An additional precedent in Parham, Meyer and Pierce decisions. And in today's Chilice v. Salazar precedent, which rejects Colorado's ban on genuine care for minors by their parents and counselors who offer compassionate care for gender dysphoria, backed by longstanding research that showed that children experiencing gender dysphoria naturally grow out of their distress and do not need life-altering medical intervention. Preventing this option to parents and practitioners by calling it course of control, as in HB 1309, puts ideology before health care of children. HB 1309 goes as far as to prohibit parents from stopping their children from hanging out with bad influences, monitoring their child's bank account to ensure good financial habits, using Find a Phone to ensure they know where their child is located to ensure safety, and using Screen Time app to protect their child from negative Internet exposure, and even throwing away their child's unused toys could be considered abuse underneath this bill. In short, the broad definitions in Section 2 present massive state overreach for normal parental behaviors to protect their children in everyday life, including oversight in their children's health care. For instance, HB 1309 prohibits parents from being able to make important medical decisions for their children regarding the treatment of ADHD and other medication diagnoses or their child's use of life-altering medication surgeries. Parental rights can even be stripped from a parent before their child is born. Under Section 2, if a male partner is accused of interfering or controlling pregnancy outcomes of his child, he could lose custody of their child if they are born and be subject to state-sanctioned penalties. We should be concerned whenever government policy is to remove children from their family, not for abuse or neglect, but because parents and children disagree about deeply personal beliefs and everyday life decisions. By and large, the Catholic Church supports policy that addresses domestic violence. HB 1309 goes far beyond that scope into normal parenting decisions. Current amendments do not address those concerns. Removing the two sections in Section 2 of this bill would be good policy, consistent with the will of Coloradans who already opposed two very similar bills. On behalf of the Colorado bishops, we ask the committee to vote no on HB 26-1309. Thank you. Is there a Miss Rocco? State your name and who you represent. You have three minutes. Chair and members of the committee, thank you for the opportunity to testify. My name is Christina Rocco, and I live in Douglas County, and I'm here as a parent with direct experience in family court. I urge you to oppose HB 26-1309 or at minimum to amend it substantially. I know what it is like to live through family court case where it labels, assumptions, and one-sided narratives can shape everything. That is why this bill concerns me. HB 26-1309 would require the court to make a domestic violence finding before ordinary best interest analysis begins. begins. And if that finding is made by preponderance of the evidence, it triggers a presumption against allocating parental responsibilities to parents. That is not a minor change. It front loads one low threshold high consequence finding and then puts the rest of the case on rails Family court is not a family court is not criminal court Yet this bill asks family court to make criminal adjacent judgments with life consequences using a civil standard I'm also concerned because this bill expands domestic violence beyond criminal acts in broad and highly interpretive categories such as coercive control, economic abuse, health-related abuse, and technological abuse. Serious abuse must be addressed, but broad non-criminal labels should not drive custody outcomes without stronger evidentiary safeguards. Many of us have already seen how difficult family court can be for ordinary families. This bill does not build trust. It increases the risk that families will be pushed deeper into conflict, deeper into litigation, and deeper into a system that can already be very overwhelming. Please vote no on HB 261309 or amend it to restore due process protections, narrow the definitions, and prevent one preponderance-based finding from driving the entire case. Thank you. Thank you. Is there a Carl Roberts? Mr. Roberts? Yes, Jared. Thank you. State your name and who you represent. You'll have three minutes. Oh, very good. My name is Carl Roberts and I represent Colorado Resilience and I urge you to vote no on HB 1309. Colorado already has a well-deserved reputation for being one of the most anti-family, anti-father and least child safe states in the nation. Why? Because over the last 10 years, Colorado has passed several bills with the intention of diminishing parental rights, legitimizing false allegations, and denying the primary form of child abuse in contested custody, parental alienation. Rep. Froelich has been the main driving force behind the relentless attack on fathers and families. Most every bill Rep. Froelich has sponsored regarding children has been based on falsehoods, fabricated data, gender-biased surveys, and ideology. Yet her bills have passed because the majority party is hostile to parental rights and equality, indifferent to fathers, and protecting children from harm if that means holding mothers accountable. This bill has zero to do with protecting children or the best interest of the child. It's drafted not to protect children, but to help protect the primary weapon in contested custody, the false allegation. HP 1309 was based on a gender-biased survey from Project Justice Colorado that Rep. Froelich wants you to believe is legitimate. It's far from it. The danger of unscientific surveys swaying public policy is a peer-reviewed and published paper debunking the survey on five critical flaws and their associated policy risk. The survey is junk and so is this bill. But as we've seen many times before in this committee, you'll turn a blind eye to the truth when protecting children conflicts with your agenda of diminishing parental rights and stripping children from loving, protected parents. I'll just leave you with these questions. Why is transgender ideology a mental illness your priority over protecting children? Why are you in favor of weaponizing false allegations over protecting children? Why are you so against fathers who protect children the most? I can understand why from Froelich's perspective, but Chair Mabry and Brett Carter, I guess holding the party line is your priority. Please vote no on HP 1309. Thank you, sir. Is there Francisco Diaz? Mr. Diaz? I'm here. State your name. You'll have three minutes and who you represent. My name is Francisco Diaz, and I am representing myself. I am a good and devoted parent of the state of Colorado who is being pushed out of my children's lives, and I am here because this bill puts children at the same risk. HB 26-1309 makes it easier for the state to separate children from fit, loving parents. It legitimizes false allegations and denies the children the right to be with a fit, willing parent based on zero required evidence. That is unacceptable. In the real world, high-conflict custody cases are messy and facts are often disputed. Currently, judges frequently rely on who seems more believable in a single moment. This bill locks that systemic flaw into law. It forces courts to make life-changing domestic violence findings at the very start of a case based on preponderance of evidence. That is essentially a 51% guess, a coin flip on who sounds slightly more credible that then triggers a legal presumption to separate a child from a parent. The bill says that no criminal charges, no convictions, and even an unfounded child protection investigation are not enough to conclude that abuse did not occur. That meant a parent can be cleared of everywhere else and still be treated as an abuser in family court. When you add broad, vague labels like coercive control to this, you hand the court unlimited power to cut a good parent out of a child's life based on an allegation and a feeling, not unclear and convincing evidence. Children have already paid the price and have been harmed by this very notion. A judge can find domestic violence by preponderance of evidence based on false allegations without a single criminal charge, protection, or any order at all. Children and families' lives have been broken and destroyed because of this kind of proposed bill. I have had over 15 allegations made against me. Every single one has been dismissed or found unsubstantiated. This is not safety. It is a form of abuse and a weaponization of the law, which this bill does not address. Children who grow up without both parents are statistically more likely to struggle in school, face mental health challenges, and experience higher rates of suicide and incarceration. We know this, yet this bill enforces the narrative and calls it safety. That is not safety. It is harm. HB 26-1309 will hurt children like mine. Please reject it with a no vote and choose a path that keeps children safe without sacrificing the rights to both fit, loving parents. Raise the standard declaring convincing evidence before any presumption. Protect real victims? Yes, absolutely. But stop giving the system more power to destroy families on a hunch. Thank you. Thank you. Members, do we have questions for this panel? Representative Finnell. Thank you, Mr. Chair. This question is for the – I'm sorry, I don't remember your name. Ms. Hawk. When you mentioned that your children weren't with you for, I believe it was a year and a half or possibly a year, do you mind if I ask were your children, were they with your husband who set you up to lose custody during that time? Yes. Ms. Hawk. Sorry, what? Oh, okay. Sorry. Yes, and I might add that one of them was not biologically his. He just walked into court and says, she knows me as dad, which wasn't true. And apparently that's enough to have family court deem them psychological parent. So he stole a daughter also, and my son. But he stole a daughter that wasn't even his, and she never knew him as dad. Represent O, sorry. I was immediately they filed an emergency motion to restrict and they found the order was that they have no evidence to they can like file like they couldn find me guilty Like, they couldn't find – I can't remember the wording, but a reason to take my kids away. But then they found a workaround the next day with temporary orders and took my kids away. Because you can be innocent in criminal court and guilty in family court, and all of my orders reflect that. Representative Flannell. do you mind if i ask do you feel like your children were safe in his hands with him being the person who set you up to have no not at all just because it's being recorded just permission to dialogue i'm sorry you may dialogue you guys can talk back and forth okay go ahead sorry um it's so emotional for me um sorry can you restate the question was he safe yeah do you i mean if you don't mind me asking. I know I don't want to make you relive it, but would you? No. And the reason it started, which I have recorded, is because he found my stash of money in my closet that I was saving to try to get out of the relationship. And I admitted that it was to leave him. And then 45 minutes later, in a small town, him and his cop friends arrested me. Thank you. Representative Representative Espinoza. Thank you, Mr. Chair. My question is for either of the representatives from the Catholic Conference. You both referenced Section 2, but I didn't know if there were specific subsections within Section 2 you were pointing to. Much of Section 2 is a recodification of existing law, so I just want to clarify that most of that is something that already exists in the statute. So if you could direct me to any specific subsection of Section 2. there was the individual online and I believe Mr. Fisher. Mr. Fisher. Thank you, Mr. Chair. Yes, and Brittany had to drop off for a second. But, yeah, no, that whole Section 2 and even the current statute is something that we have a problem with in general. So, I mean, that just is what it is. Representative Espinosa. Representative Kelty. Thanks, Mr. Chair. And Mr. Fisher, you had mentioned in your testimony about the, your concern about the faith and having children go to church. And can you expound on the importance, you know, of parents' duty as far as, you know, I remember when I was a kid, my parents had to drag me to church. Like, oh, I just want to watch cartoons and, you know, be able to play outside. But, you know, I'm grateful that they had done that. But can you expound on the importance of faith in a child's life and its relationship to the family dynamic and that? Mr. Fisher. Thank you, Mr. Chair, and thank you, Rep. Kelty, for the question. You know, I think that is a decision for parents who make for their own families. And so, you know, if a family chooses to raise their child in the faith or not in the faith, that is between the parents and the child. It's also been longstanding precedent for the court that parents are always back in the business of the child unless there is documented cases. This is overriding that precedent. Right off the top, you're assuming the parents are not back in the business of the child. I think we even heard from the sponsor. The sponsor is helping the parent. Clearly this is a topic of focus on it. So you know what we have the biggest problem with is that changing the present We're not saying that the parent has just just put up a problem. We're questioning that. We're looking at the previous . The parent knows his best child. They know that their child better than his child. Have your child involved in a better sleepover. Representative Kelty. Representative is okay. Thank you, Mr. Chair. I had a question for Ms. Hawk. First, I want to say thank you so much for being here and sharing your story. I know that that is difficult, and we all appreciate it. I am under the impression that this bill is intended to address the exact situation that you are talking about, that we know abusers many times actually accuse their victims of abuse. And the system works against those that it should be helping, right? And it sounds like that's exactly what you went through. It's my impression that the intent of this bill is to have custody courts look at the entire situation and not just charges and be able to make a determination of where abuse is actually happening. And so I know you said you were not prepared through all the details of the bill. I wanted to ask if you had a specific section or something that you felt was not addressing that intent because I believe the sponsors are trying to address your exact situation. Ms. Hawk. I felt like I did see that. I felt like it was too vague, and it still left too much judicial discretion in family courts, at least the way it was worded. And it would, it has good intent, but I feel like it wouldn't change enough or much at all. And I don't. Sorry. Yeah, I just felt like there wasn't enough language in there to really solidify that the whole story gets heard. And because even in my situation, it did. I literally subpoenaed the elect DA who dismissed my charges and said she was set up. It was proven he's the abuser. And the family court judge, who was only a judge for like two months when she took on my case, worked alongside my ex's attorney for the last 30 years in our small town and just ignored all of the evidence. I mean, I had everything to prove me innocent. And I feel like if the language is not specific enough, things like that will still happen. Does that make sense? Represents okay. Thank you, Mr. Chair. It does. And I want to say that I do completely believe you because this isn't the first time I'm hearing this story. And it is unfortunate that this seems to be a problem in our family courts. I do just once again think that this is what we're trying to address here. We're not trying to make that a worse situation. We're trying to ensure there is enough discretion to be able to stand with victims and make sure that they are able to hold their abuser accountable. and so happy to look at language more specifically I know the sponsors as well to see if we can tighten that up but just wanted to say thank you. Can I raise? Miss Hawk. I think it would have to be very like clear cut and dry language that family courts have to follow before just taking charges and ripping kids away And if there is enough evidence to prove that it not he said she said you don't get to rip the kids away like in my situation. Members, do we have any other questions for this panel? Nope. I'm seeing none. Thank you, panel. Is there anyone in person with an amend or against position on this bill? Ma'am, if you can come forward. Do we have a Christopher West? Marcella Schiffen. Yes, I'm here. Catherine Wheeler. Joshua Marston. Is there anyone online with an against or amend position? That has not already been pulled and called forward. ma'am ma'am if you can state your name who you represent and you have three minutes it's the gray button right above the right below the red button right there you go is it on okay um my name is Alyssa Marsh I represent myself um and also other people like myself that couldn't be here um initially I was very much for this because I myself am a victim or a survivor on the other side, whichever way you want to call it, especially with domestic violence. And I do have children. Currently, I am in a very nasty custody battle with my ex-husband in a similar situation like Miss Hawk, I think her name was. I do think something like this needs to happen because my understanding and my research that I've done on my own for Colorado law when it comes to best interests of children do not protect children at all. I myself am one thing, but when it comes to my children, it's something completely different. I am more than willing to put myself aside, put my personal feelings aside, especially with my counterpart and my ex-husband or my co-parent, no matter how much of a nasty person he was to me. When it comes to the best interests of my children, he's still their dad. And I still think it's important for them to have that person in their life. But I do think that there needs to be changes that need to be made. I do favor this bill, but I do think that there are some changes that do need to be made to it. As far as there is a lot of vagueness, the coercion can make my situation a lot worse than what it is right now. When it comes to best interests of children, I think that we need to take into consideration all of the things. Currently, my children, I do have temporary restricted time that got approved, but the same similar situation to her with a loophole on something. Nothing has been substantiated or founded in my case. I know there was a couple of gentlemen that spoke out in similar situations as well, but by having this going forth the way that it is right now opens up the door and floodgates for a lot of this to be not temporary to things to be taken away. Already my children both are both in therapy because of the situation that's going on right now. And a lot of these things could have been prevented if there are safeguards in place. I do think that there need to be safeguards in place with a lot of these things. My initial separation was over a year long, and it was very nasty because of the custody battle. the children. Both my children right now are going to therapy. Both my children right now don't get to see me consistently. Both of my children right now don't understand what's going on, and I'm not allowed to explain things to them about what is happening. I've never been one to lie to my children. My children are younger. They're nine and six, but I explain things to them in a way that they can understand that doesn't place blame on one parent or the other. So I do think that this has good intentions, I do think that there just needs to be modifications with a lot of it coming with in section two and the coercion part of it. Because if this were to pass and my situation right now goes through, this is going to negatively impact my children traumatically. They're going to have more trauma, more PTSD, more needs for therapy, more mental health issues than what they already have. And that is the only thing that I have to say. I don't know how much time I have left. Thank you. Just to be clear for everyone online, you are in an amend or opposed position. We can start with Mr. West. State your name, who you represent. You have three minutes. Sure. My name is Christopher West and I represent myself, chair and members of the committee. Good afternoon. My name is Christopher. I'm a father in Larimer County, a public school educator of over 20 years, and I was a stay-at-home dad for nearly a decade. I am in here in opposition to House Bill 26-1309, not because I do not support child safety, but because I've experienced what happens when decisions are made without significant evidence and without meaningful due process. process. I currently have unsupervised parenting time with my 10-year-old daughter, which reflects that there are no safety concerns, and yet I have not had meaningful contact with my 12-year-old son for two years. Multiple professionals, including a licensed family therapist with over 30 years of education and service and a parental responsibility evaluator, have both confirm that there are no safety concerns and that unification should move forward. But due to delays and lack of early structured evaluation, that the relationship has remained stalled. In high-conflict custody cases, there's a real risk of false positives or misuse where normal conflict or untested allegations can be interpreted in ways that restrict a child's access to a saved parent. When combined with a predominance of evidence standard, serious decisions about a child's relationship can be made without clear and convincing proof of harm. And because Colorado does not require a timely, neutral evaluation, such as early neutral assessment, when allegations to impact parenting time. These situations can remain unresolved for months or even years without clear findings. Even when formal evaluations complete, delays in acting on them can prolong separation and leave children and parents in extended uncertainty. The longer the separation continues, the harder it becomes to repair the parent-child relationship, regardless of the truth. The result is that is what I living a child losing a relationship with a safe parent during critical development years That time cannot be recovered I am not here to argue against protecting children That is essential. I do it every day as an educator. But child safety and due process should not compete. They must coexist. If this bill moves forward, I respectfully ask you to include clear safeguards requiring corroborative evidence before restricting parenting time. Ensure timely review of temporary orders. Require timely, neutral evaluation when serious allegations arise and create a defined path to reunification when no safety concerns exist. Thank you for your time and cooperation. Thank you, sir. Is there a Mr. Lloyd Barnes? Can you state your name and who you represent? Do you mean Lloyd Bennis? Oh, I'm sorry. I take that as yes. Hello, my name is Lloyd Bennis, and I urge a no vote on HB 26-1309. In the First Amendment of the Constitution, it says Congress will make no law prohibiting the free exercise of religion or abridging the freedom of speech. This bill attacks both of those clauses. Thus, it is doomed to judicial reversal, just as two other laws by the Colorado legislature were reversed. Those two include SB 23190, as well as the 2019 Colorado law banning conversion therapy for LGBT minors. This latter law was struck down today by the Supreme Court since the court said the First Amendment stands as a shield against any effort to enforce orthodoxy in thought or speech in this country. This bill attacks parents who do not affirm their children's trans identity. And as for SB 23190, on August 1st, 2025, federal judge Domenico issued a permanent injunction to prevent Colorado Bill SB 23190 from outlawing abortion pill reversal care by Bella Health and Wellness, saying there is no question whether Section 3 of SB 23190 burdens Bella Health's free exercise of religion. On January 6, 2026, the state of Colorado was ordered to pay Bella Health and Wellness $5.4 million in attorney's fees. $5.4 million. So how does this Bill 1309 burden the free exercise of religion? This is how. If a father attempts to save the life of his pre-born child because of sincerely held religious convictions, he can be accused of health-related abuse. Thus, this Bill 1309 attacks both the free exercise and free speech clauses of the First Amendment. The state of Colorado will be paying millions to other plaintiffs' lawyers over this bill if it passes. You know Colorado faces over a billion-dollar shortfall again this year, and 1309 will ensure millions in litigation costs being piled on top of that. This bill falls under the old maxim that says insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results to avoid this insanity. I urge you to vote no on 1309. So Colorado taxpayers don't keep having to pay lawyers fees when such laws attack the free exercise of religion and abridge free speech. Thank you for your time. Thank you, Mr. Bennis. Very Dr. Wheeler. Which one was Sorry my unmute was controlled for a moment I apologize. Thank you. State your name and who you represent. You have three minutes, ma'am. Thank you, Mr. Chair and members of the committee. My name is Catherine Wheeler. I'm an OB-GYN physician, mother of four, and grandmother to three. I represent myself and was prepared to ask for an amendment on this bill, starting Section 2. But after hearing the extensive testimony of so many, especially the attorney, Julie Grayson, I ask for a no vote. My first marriage was abusive, requiring legal protection for my children and myself and eventually divorce. I was part to some of the judicial proceedings that we've heard about from other parents and the frightening judicial discretion and power of the family court. For me and my children, it had ended up well, but I would have done anything, anything to protect my children, no matter the cost. And I did. Parents generally protect their children better than the government. From my experience, I agree that actual domestic violence and abuse must be considered in judicial decisions regarding child custody and visitation. But I thoroughly disagree with the false notions in Section 2 that place government agendas and ideologies above parental authority, duty and rights. I have known abuse. The items in Section 2 are not abuse or coercion, but they're normal parenting behavior. Health care abuse is a made up term which hides very real danger for children. Colorado law and the Supreme Court affirmed parents' rights to make decisions regarding their children. the government may only override parental authority if the court finds them to be unfit. In Section 2, the government would redefine normal parenting behavior as domestic violence and coercive control, such as protecting their children from people with bad influence and harmful intent, monitoring their activities, leaving them vulnerable to bad actors, traffickers, and abusers on social media and online, choosing their child's best therapist and their child's best medical decisions, Reproductive health care decisions, which would place girls at more risk of abuse and coercion with cover up for the abuser, as well as the very real risk of poor mental health outcomes and suicidality documented in recent peer reviewed scientific literature and also in overseeing their finances. As I tell my grandkids, your parents and grandparents are here to keep you alive and well until your brain works. Section two is dangerous for children. Additionally, due to this bill's presumptive guilt, broadening of definitions, low standards for proof and potential serious lifelong harms for children, as well as parents, I ask for a no vote. Thank you. Thank you. Is there a Sven Sharpen? State your name and who you represent. You have three minutes, sir. yeah thank you chair and committee members my name is sven sharpen and i'm the founder and executive director of the autistic freedom network whom i represent alongside the supposed to be autistic community which doesn't exist yet i'm here in complete and total opposition to hb 26 1309 not to be confused confused with last year's bill 25 1309 which is atrocious and i don't have time to get into that. So we're here testifying yet again against the rigged redefinition of coercive control that I actually read through this time that you're trying to take the rights of that you using to take the rights of parents away I mean this kind of thing already happens in practice Like with me I was diagnosed with autism before I turned two years old and was immediately put on early intervention And then three years after that I was put on Zoloft and Risperidol and I only got off of that stuff last year And then another few years after that, I was given preschool-level assignments in fifth grade. And then finally, another few years after that, I was forced to move schools away from years-long relationships. all of this made me believe my life didn't matter and that I had no future to make matters worse my parents often didn't know about this stuff until I told them and when they were there they were threatened with my failure if they didn't agree to all the stuff that they that the schools and hospitals were doing to me I mean does that sound familiar to those of you who are proponents of this because it's almost like the doctors and school officials are doing coercive control, things that you described to be coercive control. If parents themselves can't do this, then why is it okay for a government, school, or medical officials to do the same things to parents over things like a diagnosis? Parents have every right to determine the upbringing of their own children, and we should never use the excuse of disability to change that, and especially in regard to the trans stuff considering over half of the kids going through those procedures are on the autism spectrum. If this bill passes to the Cal, then why don't we amend it so that government, school, and medical officials also cannot coercively control families? Also, Kaylee Childs won her SCOTUS case, which basically wipes out HB 1911-29 and 19 other states' equivalents, which means Therapists can now affirm the truth, and nobody can force them otherwise. So good luck with all these unconstitutional bills that have been passed over these last few years because they're all heading to SCOTUS. But for now, I highly urge a no vote. Thank you guys very much. Thank you. Ma'am, I'm going to have you say your last name, first name, Marcella. I'm going to have you say your last name. If you could state your last name and who you represent, you'll have three minutes. Yeah. Hi. Hello. Thank you, Mr. Chair and members of the committee. My name is Marcella Shefflin, and I'm a graduate Lenn Fellow at CU's Anschutz and JFK Partners UCEDD, a co-primary support decision-making support person for my adult daughter with a disability, and I do have personal experience regarding this issue. I support this bill with amendments, and I'm asking the committee to extend it further because, as written, two populations are left behind. First, children with disabilities. They face heightened vulnerability to coercive control, yet the bill does not require disability competent investigators, communication access, accommodations, or disability-specific findings. The proposed amendments that I have submitted to the bill sponsors close those gaps. Second, adults with IDD who are in paid caregiving placements, such as host homes, Colorado law contains no presumptive framework, no independent advocate requirement, and no investigation protocol for coercive control by a sole paid caregiver. The structural vulnerability is identical to what this bill addresses in custody. The amendments extend that protection. And I also want to place on the record that when courts encounter these cases, particularly during times of separation and family transition, the standard framework often does not fit. Courts sometimes default to a 50-50 arrangement that do not account for a person with a the disability's individual needs, or they turn to legal guardianship as a shortcut when the path forward is unclear. Guardianship is not a neutral solution, it's a civil deprivation of legal rights, and it should never be a default outcome, especially during a period of transition when a person with a disability may already be navigating disruption and uncertainty. This bill creates an opportunity to say that clearly in statute. I've witnessed cases of this kind firsthand as a support parent through parent-to-parent of Colorado. Families in crisis deserve options to protect the rights and the voice of the person with a disability, not arrangements that permanently strip those rights away because the court lacked another tool. Rights without enforcement are just promises, and I'm asking the committee to make sure enforcement reaches everyone. Thank you so much. Thank you, ma'am. before we have questions. Is there anyone online that is in an amend or an opposed position, or if there's anyone in person in an amend or an opposed position? Members, do we have questions for this panel? Seeing none, thank you. Thank you, panel. Do we have a Christine McGinley? Dr. Jennifer Johnson? Stephanie Montgomery? David Carnes? Stephanie Montgomery Okay, she's online Yes, I'm online Thank you And David Carnes I'm here From my right, your left State your name, who you represent and you'll have three minutes. My name is Christine McGinley, and I represent myself. Eleven years ago, after multiple instances of domestic violence, I filed for divorce. I sought to protect myself and my child. At first, we were both placed under a criminal protection order against the father. However, we were not safe. Instead, we were at the beginning of a decade in the nation. Can I do a do-over? Okay. Eleven years ago, after multiple instances of domestic violence, I filed for divorce. I sought to protect myself and my child. At first, we were both placed under a criminal protection order against the father. However, we were not safe. Instead, we were at the beginning of a decade of litigation in family court that continues today. The court recognized the harm the father inflicted on my child. But because no requirement existed to carry those findings forward my child was ordered into unsupervised unsafe contact My final orders from 2016 stated the following The court found that the child's physical health is endangered from parenting time with father. Father has neglected the child. The court finds by a preponderance of the evidence that father has committed domestic violence against mother. While the court is concerned with father's admission to sexually abusing a four-year-old child in the past, that admission is not evidence that father sexually abused his child. There was never a focus on whether the father had become a safer parent, only on increasing his time. When there is no accountability, the abuser is emboldened. The family court becomes the mechanism for post-separation abuse under the guise of constitutional rights. Constitutional rights have become judicial shorthand for the path of least resistance, but Troxel guarantees a right to some contact, not unsafe contact. The child with no constitutional standing pays the difference. In 11 years, my case has consumed hundreds of motions, nearly 20 full hearing days, and four court-appointed evaluators requested by father, three of whom recommended my child be in my primary care. The most recent evaluator found that the current arrangement with father places my child at risk of emotional medical neglect, and that will likely lead to negative long-term physical and mental health consequences. Eleven years, and the harm found by the court in 2016 has not changed today, and my child suffers the consequences. My child remains in that environment found to be harmful as we wait and continue to wait on an order from a judge, most likely overwhelmed by a crowded docket. The bill gives judges the tools and the mandate to protect children from the beginning, and this is how you protect children's health, and this is how you clear dockets. This is how you save lives. Please support 1309. Thank you. Thank you. Dr. Jennifer Johnson, state your name, who you represent. You will have three minutes. Hi there. Good afternoon. My name is Dr. Jennifer Johnson, and I'm here representing myself as a domestic violence survivor in a perpetual family law case now exceeding $1.6 million in fees. I'm here in support of HB 26-1309. Despite a case replete with domestic violence, including audio and video abuse and a permanent protection order upheld by the Colorado Court of Appeals. That is in re marriage of wigs 2025. A judicial officer said my abusive ex would have primary custody if I relocated to the state of Michigan. The judge also allocated sole decision making to our abuser stating, and I quote, A plain reading of the statutory provisions of sole decision-making does not support the idea of petitioner. Nothing suggests that a finding of domestic violence requires an award of sole decision-making to the victim of domestic violence. Nothing suggests that a finding of domestic violence prohibits a grant of equal parenting time to the perpetrator of domestic violence. Rather, the statutes quoted above clearly indicate that the court must consider domestic violence. While the statute puts limits on a grant of mutual decision making it does not grant sole decision making to the victim I think I think what relevant about that is that our judicial system is not able to properly effectuate that a domestic violence perpetrator should not have decision I can speak from personal experience that giving more power to an abuser through decision-making is about as dangerous as it gets. In one year, our abuser has revoked consent for mental health treatment for one of our children. Our children have been terminated from therapy. He's hurled medical abuse and neglect allegations against me. And our children have gone without necessary acute medical care. I'd like to show a photo of our 11-year-old daughter returning home last week with a severe burn on her leg. Not only did my abusive ex refuse to seek medical care for her, but threatened to drag me to court if I sought medical care for her. I support this bill because decision-making must be clearly placed in the hands of a protective parent. It really is life or death for so many children. Thank you for your efforts in prioritizing the lives of victims and children. Thank you. Thank you. Before we go to online, is there a Cicely Reine? If you can come forward. And Andrea Ritzel. Megan Jacuzzi. Rachel Pickerel Hawkins. and Brenna Berman so if you could state your name and who you represent and you'll have three minutes chair and members of the committee my name is Cecily Reine I'm here representing myself today I work in family law and see high conflict custody cases like mine every day. I also serve on the Voices Board at the Rose Andum Center, the Policy Action Committee of the Colorado Women's Bar Association, and work with the National Safe Parents Organization. I want to speak to you not just about policy, but about what this looks like when enforcement statutes operate without required safety analysis. I'm a survivor of strangulation and assault while pregnant with my son, two of the highest lethality indicators that exist. both occurred at the hands of my son's father. These are not ambiguous. These are findings recognized within our current orders and within a criminal context. And yet the father of my child has always had unsupervised and unregulated parenting time. At the inception of my case, my son's father also forged my signature on a parenting plan, submitted it to the court, and used it to procure jurisdiction and temporary orders. He was charged with two counts of felony forgery in a case where both myself and the state of Colorado were named victims. Since temporary and final orders were entered, there have been additional allegations of child abuse and neglect. I want to address the idea that current law already requires findings. In practice, the issue is not whether findings exist, it is what those findings actually do. More recently, there has been CPS involvement tied to new felony and misdemeanor charges that my son father is now facing As a result at an emergency hearing in February of 2026 I was able to gain a finding of endangerment and yet the outcome still allows for continued and unsupervised contact without adequate safety measures for myself or my son and I am still required to maintain ongoing contact with a person who nearly took my life that continued access has been allowed in part because despite a clear pattern of domestic violence with my son's father as the common denominator responsibility has been shifted onto his current wife rather than addressed at its source there are no clear evidence-based findings supporting the conclusion that the danger lies solely with his current wife in fact that conclusion relied on testimony deemed lacking in credibility so while findings may be made they not necessarily being used in a way that meaningfully protects the child or addresses the source of the harm. The opposition will argue that a lower burden allows false allegations to be substantiated. My case demonstrates the opposite. What happens when a pro se parent, unaware of evidentiary or procedural standards, enters a courtroom trying to protect their child against a perpetrator with the financial ability to retain counsel? What happens is they cannot effectively protect their child. That is the reality many parents are navigating. Even when evidence is admitted and substantiated, the best interest of child standard under CRS 1410-124 allows domestic violence to be weighed alongside other factors. It becomes one factor among many, which means it can be outweighed. That's how you end up with cases like mine, where serious violence is acknowledged but not dispositive, where safety concerns exist but do not control the outcome. Again, in my case, the abuse and the ongoing pattern since are not ambiguous. They are documented and recognized and this is still what the outcome looks like this bill may need amendments But the core concept placing domestic violence first removing it from being weighed against other best interest factors and requiring safety measures that align with Demonstrated danger is necessary not just for me But for the many parents and children like mine to ensure that safety is not just considered but prioritized over parental rights I would be glad to answer any questions. Thank you Thank you We have David Carnes. If you can state your name and who you represent, you have three minutes, sir. Thank you. Chair and members of the committee, thank you for the opportunity to testify today. My name is David Carnes, and I'm the Public Policy and Communications Director at Violence Free Colorado, the state's anti-domestic violence coalition. I want to start by expressing our appreciation to the sponsors for their collaboration and openness throughout this process. We know that legislation addressing domestic violence in family court is complex, and we're grateful for the thoughtful engagement and willingness to work through difficult and nuanced issues. This session, we've seen a number of bills that seek to address child custody and family court processes. That reflects a broader recognition that this system is deeply flawed. These systems play a critical role in safety and well-being of survivors and their children, and as such, protections should be clearly outlined. We believe this bill is an important step forward in strengthening those protections. In my previous work in direct service with DV survivors, including parents navigating these systems, the concerns I heard were consistent. Survivors wanted the abuse to stop and they wanted their children to be safe. Those were the priorities. I did not hear survivors talk about revenge or trying to mislead courts for their own benefit. What I heard over and over again was fear, concern for children, and a desire for safety and stability. Too often, survivors enter family court and find that their experiences of abuse are minimized, reframed as conflict, or not clearly addressed in decision-making. This bill helps to shift that. It requires courts to make clear findings about domestic violence, ensures that safety is centered throughout custody, determinations and create stronger guardrails around decision-making and parenting time when abuse is present. Importantly, it also reflects a more realistic understanding of how domestic violence impacts families. Abuse does not end at separation. In many cases, it continues through systems, including custody and parenting arrangements. By prioritizing safety, limiting forced shared decision-making in cases involving abuse, and providing practical tools to reduce ongoing contact and risk, this bill moves us closer to a system that better supports and protects children. At the same time, we recognize that this is an evolving conversation. We appreciate that this version reflects meaningful progress, and we look forward to the continued discussions as this bill moves forward. We believe there are opportunities to continue refining language and to ensure consistent and effective implementation, and we remain committed to working alongside sponsors and stakeholders to get this right. We believe this bill represents a thoughtful and important step toward a more responsive and survivor-centered family court system in Colorado. Thank you for your time and consideration. I'm happy to answer any questions. Thanks, sir. Is there a Stephanie Montgomery? I'll state your name. You have three minutes and who you represent. My name is Stephanie Montgomery, and I'm representing myself. In 2023, my now-estranged husband was arrested after assaulting me and two of our five children who were in the home at the time. He was convicted of a class five felony menacing as he brandished a handgun and ascertained I'm going to kill you. This represented one of three documented arrests for him, the only one of which domestic violence was affirmed, with a finding of child abuse founded by the Department of Human Services. Further, it was one of countless domestic violence events with him as the perpetrator. He was ordered onto probation and ordered to complete domestic violence treatment. The provider considered him to successfully complete this treatment, despite the provider violating the domestic violence offender management board standards and failing to hold him accountable to the abuse of his family, as substantiated in written findings by the DVOMB. The assumption that convictions and criminal court interventions are the answer to keeping children safe is flawed. I am here in support of House Bill 26-1309. When domestic violence and child abuse are present, children are harmed, as statistics show. This bill is a step in the right direction to increasing the best interest of children's standards, placing safeguards in place to support child and victim survivor safety, and including measurable therapeutic interventions. It is so gravely critical that judges, magistrates, and other judicial officers have specific legal guidelines to follow when allocating any parental responsibility. Children deserve to live lives free from continued harm, and the judicial system is tasked to ensure this happens to the best of their ability where parental allocation is in question. In ending, so few of those in opposition of this bill are victim survivors or shared that they were. We must consider those with lived experience as critical in providing meaningful input regarding bills that support child and victim survivor safety. Thank you for your time. Thank you, Ms. Montgomery. Is there a Brenna Berman? Yes, hi. Thank you, ma'am. State your name, who you represent. You have three minutes. Okay. Hi, actually, I'm Tangie Lancaster, and I'm reading the following testimony for my dear friend, Brenna from Louisville. She says thank you for letting me speak today I am a survivor of domestic violence and coercive control and my children are victims of child abuse The perpetrator is the biological father to our daughter For three years I have been in court countless times due to court decisions that have put her in repetitive psychological and physical harm. In May 2023, my children witnessed domestic violence and their father's arrest when he physically assaulted me in front of them. He pled guilty to domestic violence. Criminal court granted a protection order to myself and my children. At temporary orders, despite the domestic violence and child abuse charges, family court did not believe me, accused me of being vindictive, and stripped my daughter's protection order and thrust her into every other weekend visitation. The proposed overnights were frightening to my daughter, then seven years old. She fought physically and verbally for over four hours on the first visit attempt, two hours at a police station until the police called it off. When visits started, she refused overnights and other visits stating her fear of her father. In April 2024, her father shoved our daughter when she was having a panic attack, re-traumatizing her. She began having more flashbacks of the domestic violent assault she had witnessed. She became suicidal, banging her head into walls, lying in the street, and standing in front of traffic. She was partially hospitalized in the summer of 2024. This brought us to court again, resulting in emergency-restricted parenting time. My PRE report proved domestic violence, child abuse, and coercive control by their father. In permanent orders in September 2024, family court ordered a child-led step-up schedule. Our daughter still refused visitation until early 2025. Today, she still refuses to progress through the schedule, and we are forced back to court. Father won't recognize that her refusers are due to her lack of felt safety and his constant pressure. He constantly accuses me of parental alienation, although it has been proven repetitively that I have done no alienating behaviors. My daughter is severely traumatized. Had the coercive control and domestic violence been consistently respected by family court as a reason to restrict the father's parenting time, my daughter's childhood would not be dominated by mental health crises, fear and anxiety. She speaks often of feeling forced to visit him, upset that her voice does not seem to matter. The damage being done to my daughter and the resources that the family court has spent on my case are unnecessary and horrifying. What could have been one trial has been four, with many status hearings in between and no end in sight. While I worry about untrue counter allegations of parental alienation, his proven abuse and domestic violence are nearly ignored when it comes to our daughter. We need change. Thank you. Please vote yes on this bill. Thank you. Thank you. Excuse me. Is there a Megan? And you're going to tell me what your last name? Jacuz? hi yes um megan jacus let me just set this up hang on just a second state your name and you have three minutes and who you represent my name is megan jacus i represent myself and my daughter i'm here in support of hb 26-1309 i'm a mother who fought in the el paso county family court system and my child was harmed by the concept of judicial convenience. Decisions that should have centered her safety instead prioritized efficiency and case flow. The judge, CFI, and reintegration therapist ignored the imminent danger to my child. She was forced into years of unregulated therapies and unsupervised visits where she was exposed to his drug addiction and abuse She was conditioned to believe that I was an unsafe person and that she wasn allowed to be open with me about her lived experience I also a survivor of domestic violence by the same man He was even found during my labor with our daughter to be using drugs in the hospital. In spite of the heinous nature of his behavior, I was advised not to bring the advice forward because the judges would look at me poorly if I did. After my daughter was born, he even went on to assault multiple other women, and these patterns were known to our judge and still disregarded. That is a failure of how our system understands and responds to domestic violence and the imminent threat to children. Because of the court's gaps in recognizing vexatious litigation, abuse by proxy, and DV standards, my daughter was repeatedly placed in unsafe environments. When I advocated for her safety, I was labeled a parental alienator, damaging my credibility with the courts and my relationship with my child. I was threatened with jail and losing her entirely. The harm is permanent. My daughter needed years of therapy, and it was entirely preventable if the judge had an ounce of understanding of domestic violence. Custody cases are a hinge point in the system in Colorado, and without clear standards, families are pulled into a revolving door of litigation. We spent seven years in and out of court, and there was zero regulation. We spent over $100,000 fighting for my child. This bill creates defined expectations, reduces conflict, increases consistency across rulings, and prioritizes child safety. There has to be accountability when other safety concerns are ignored. Requiring a written decision creates transparency and gives families a path forward to establishing safety. A kid's right to safety should be the priority over the rights of adults who make their own choices. A child's right to safety should be priority over judges being annoyed at their overloaded dockets. Kids are not a matter of convenience or a line item in a budget. They have to be the priority. When courts ignore warning signs, kids are placed in harm's way, and that is evident in the rising number of deaths of kids in Colorado as a result of conflict in custody. Domestic violence is rising in Colorado, and that demands stronger standards, not weaker ones. This bill ensures that safety is not secondary to convenience and that parents are not punished for advocating for safety for the kids. If my daughter could tell you this today, she would be in support of this bill. And so am I. Thank you. Thank you, ma'am. Is there a Rachel Pickerel Hawkins? Yes. State your name and who you represent. You have three minutes, ma'am. Thank you, chair and members of the committee. My name is Rachel Pickerel Hawkins. I'm here as a mother, a survivor, a protective parent, and also a parent failed miserably by Colorado's family court system. And I also speak on behalf of the National Safe Parents Organization. I'm here in support of this bill because child safety must be the standard in family court, not an afterthought. Colorado has worked hard to define coercive control, abuse, and domestic violence. But in family court, those realities are still too often minimized, ignored, or treated as secondary to forced contact or preserving parental access at all costs. HB 26 matters because it requires what should already exist in family court that judges and magistrates determine whether domestic violence occurred and consider relevant evidence of abuse and child safety before allocating parental responsibilities Too often that does not happen unless the law explicitly requires it This is not a rare issue The U Department of Justice Office of Justice Programs, researched and found that in custody cases requiring judicial intervention, domestic violence allegations are raised and substantiated in about 75 percent of cases. In one National Institute of Justice funded study of 965 couples in court mandated divorce and custody mediation, mediators identified intimate partner violence in 59 percent of cases. In another NIJ study of 965 couples, just over 90% of cases involve some type of intimate partner abuse, including threats, physical violence, sexual intimidation, coercion, or assault. My own case reflects many of the forms of abuse this very bill recognizes. Coercive control, intimidation, surveillance, destruction of property, abuse involving our animals, litigation abuse, stalking, and threats to use law enforcement and the legal system against me. That's only the beginning. I fled for our safety with my children four years ago. My former spouse, a retired Aurora police officer, is now facing trial for seven felony counts of sexual assault on a child by a person in a position of trust, along with child abuse charges. Yet during family court proceedings, instead of protecting my children from danger, the narrative was flipped. I was called a liar. My evidence was disregarded and the focus shifted to me. I brought forward police reports, therapists, mandatory reporters, advocates, experts, eyewitnesses, and findings from the Department of Human Services and Child Protective Services. And despite that, my children were ignored. I was marginalized, punished for raising safety concerns, and even jailed. My children were placed in further harm's way. We are often told there are avenues for judges and magistrates to hear children and consider the voices of protective parents. But that is not what is happening in practice. Children are too often not heard and protective parents are too often dismissed. And when that happens, the result is not merely procedural failure. It is preventable harm. Had these standards in this bill been applied in my case, my children would not have been subjected to further harm, and we would not be spending years still in litigation today while serious danger was overlooked. No child should have to wait for criminal charges to be brought in family court. They should take it seriously. This is not radical. It's necessary to measure and ensure that the family courts identify abuse, assess risk, hear children, and act. Miss Pickerel, can you wrap it up? I'm giving you a simile wave. Can you wrap up, please? Yes, I'm sorry. Please, I urge you, pass this bill and make Colorado child safety not an option. thank you ma'am miss wolf you have three minutes state your name and who you represent thank you mr chair and members of the committee my name is katie wolf but i'm just here to read testimony on not able to be here. My name is Erica Bethel. I'm a survivor of domestic violence. My daughters, Cameron and Audrey, are not. They are forever six and eight. I am in support of House Bill 1309 because it prioritizes what matters most, protecting children. I began fighting for my daughter's safety in court when they were one and three. Like many survivors, the abuse did not begin with physical violence. It followed a well-documented pattern, control, isolation, coercion, surveillance, and escalating threats. The moment I knew we were no longer safe was when he chased us more than 600 miles down the highway while making threats. He was enraged. He had guns. I presented that incident along with many others to the court. I submitted recordings, photographs of destroyed property, witness statements, and documented coercive control, including harming our dog, stalking, and homicidal and suicidal threats. It was not a he said, she said situation I presented. evidence. My daughter's pediatrician and therapist reported his behavior to CPS and the court multiple times. Still, it was not enough to prove abuse, nor that the danger was real. This is a systematic failure. I was not asking the court to punish my abuser. I was pleading with the court to protect my children. My abuser fought for custody, not to be a healthy parent, but to maintain power and control. My daughters became pawns. The courtroom became the arena for continued abuse. There is an evidence-based lethality risk tool called the danger assessment. At the time I separated, my score would have been 29, well above the threshold of 18 for extreme risk of lethality. Yet the court still found there was not enough evidence to establish domestic violence. Despite everything presented, the judge determined my daughters would be safe in the care of their father. The court ordered me to send my daughters to their father. During his court order of unsupervised parenting time, he brutally murdered them. Unfortunately, my case is not a one-off. It is a real example of escalating abuse patterns being missed and minimized, where a parent's rights to parenting time is prioritized over a child's right to be safe. Children's lives are at stake. I followed the process of the court to a I hired three PREs, was represented by attorneys every step of the way, presented evidence of abusive events, unrefuted, and still the court failed my daughters. It's not only my children I'm speaking for, the other children who have also lost their lives in the last few years after their parents fought for them in our Colorado courts. Sisters Summer and Jesse, ages 3 and 7. Siblings Aiden and Ellie, ages 7 and 9. Meadow, age 18. Liam, age 5. Sophia, age 5. These are children right now who have been ordered to spend time with their abusers. They are terrified at high risk of harm. Their safe parent is terrified, like I was, that they may never return. Please protect children. The system is broken and must be fixed. If not through this bill, then please do something. Anything that will be better than protect our children in the courts. I fought for years with Colorado's current system to protect my daughters, and I lost in the most devastating way. Please do not let another parent live this nightmare. Thank you, Ms. Wolfe. Members, do we have questions for this panel? Sorry, Representative Clifford. Thank you, Mr. Chair. I sorry remind me your name ma on the end Christine McGinley Thank you Can you tell me what you think this will do with judges I was waiting for him to give me. I'm sorry. I was trying to. Ms. McGinley. Thank you. So what I believe this bill does is it gives judges a flow chart. Currently, when a judge is analyzing whether it's domestic violence in a case, they're going from one statute to over to another. They're trying to find where coercive control is. They're trying to find what domestic violence definition is. and what happens because we've heard from the judiciary themselves is they're time limited and so what we see consistently in cases is that they just don't make the findings at all so what this bill is aiming to do is to basically have a pause to look through the evidence analyze the evidence and make their discretionary determination whether there is currently domestic violence. Then, whether they determine there is or there is not, they move on to the best interest analysis. That's simply what the bill is aimed to do, and basically just restructuring what's currently in statute. Representative Clifford. To just ask a real blunt question about it, Does this help or hinder judges? Ms. McGinley. I believe currently it's one of the most helpful things for judges because the goal was to basically restructure the current statute. So that way it's one step by another step by another step by another step versus having to take the time to find various statutes in various places. And it also follows, sorry, the NCJ-FCJ model code, which is Chapter 4, which elaborates on all of this. Thank you very much. Representative Espinosa. Thank you, Mr. Chair. For the same witness, I'd just like to discuss a little bit about the expansion of definitions in this bill compared to what was previously existing, especially in domestic relations. I mean domestic violence definition generally we're replacing that and I think also in section I'm looking at the amended the amendment and the health related I think those were the two that a lot of the people are talking about that looks like there are new definitions within the provisions. Can you speak to that briefly how those were added, how they're consistent or not consistent with the standards you just mentioned? Was that for Ms. McGinley? Yes, Ms. McGinley. Thank you. So the NCJ, FCJ, I'm not sure if everyone is aware, is a national, I can actually give the, I can never remember it, offhand of the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges, which consists of social researchers, I think over 100 judges. And so they develop a model code to give direction to various state judiciaries. So these definitions the goal of the model code is they actually use the term domestic abuse as an umbrella And the concept of domestic abuse then has various definitions that would fall under So all of the definitions that coercive control obviously already existed in statute. Domestic violence already exists in statute. So we're trying to just pull it all together to make it simple in one place for things to be a little bit easier for judges. Particular definitions that are different were all from the exact language from the model code. Rep. Esvinoza. And how many states have adopted that model code? Ms. McGinley. I don't think that there's statistics or data on exact. I think various ones have adapted parts of it. For example, there are approximately 31 states that have adopted the rebuttal presumption, which has been in existence in some states like Alabama for at least 15 years. So some states have adopted the rebuttal presumption that the model code also reflects in detail on how to use the rebuttal presumption. but this bill was basically baby steps in the sense of definitions. Representative Espinosa. Thank you. And I guess I'd also just like to discuss the presumption and the concerns that were raised by some of the oppositions, people who are opposing the bill, in terms of whether this does set the precedent on its head and it's in a relationship between, obviously, I think Representative Bacon earlier was talking about wanting some clarifications in terms of the criminal intersection to determinations of domestic violence or charges of other convictions in the criminal standards and whether this presumption might have an adverse effect on individuals' rights in criminal proceedings in terms of this presumption being made in the civil court and what protections might exist to those individuals who might be mischarged or misidentified through the domestic proceedings, how that intersects to any rights they might have in representations in the criminal proceedings, if you understand what I'm talking about. Ms. McGinley? I think I understand, but I actually think the reverse happens. So, for example, in my particular case, my son and I, who was an infant, as a victim of domestic violence, we were both placed under a criminal protection order. And as soon as I filed for dissolution, the temporary orders hearing eliminated my child from the protection order. And that is what's commonplace. So despite what happens in criminal court and civil court, it is often modified in order to force contact, even if it's unsafe contact. Representative Espinoza? And from your understanding or experience in the system, is that because of the priority that's given to parental rights as a preeminent kind of a structure? Is that what's pushing that side of the equation for the judges? Ms. McGinley? I don't believe that. I think that there's confusion on, again, and one thing I wanted to make clear in my testimony is no one is saying that a parent shouldn't have parenting time. What I think this bill is trying to do is say that parenting time should be safe. And there's multiple, multiple ways. And Trussell v. Granville basically is saying there should be some contact. But that some contact seems to be opened up to unsafe contact. And I think that this bill is literally a baby step for judges to start acknowledging the dangers of domestic violence and having unsafe contact There are multiple multiple options available Representative Espinosa. I think that's all. Thank you. Any further questions for this panel? Representative Flanell. Thank you, Mr. Chair. This question is for anyone who fell victim to domestic violence or had domestic violence within their case. Do you think that that 52-week domestic violence abuser intervention program would have helped your case. Ms. Reiney? Thank you. I think specifically for myself, I do not believe so. For myself, the reason being that in my case, the person who abused me multiple times has gone through already multiple criminal proceedings that mandated the same things. So when he when he was criminally convicted for strangulation, when he was criminally convicted for felony DUI, he was on the mops program in Douglas County. This was all preceding our our our case that exists right now before the inception. He was required to do all of those things beforehand. And now we have that pattern reoccurring almost mirrored with his current wife and the same thing. He's going back again. However, that is not to say that I don't think that any party that commits domestic violence is not able to become a safe party for parenting. I think that that's why in this case being able to put them into situations with educated professionals that can analyze those things. That way, pending the end of their term of that, they can be evaluated again and, hey, are we safe yet or do we have to continue going? Because there are some people that may be able to be, but a lot of the time it is not. Representative Flannell. Do you think that this kind of one size fits all sort of verbiage, I think, is suitable for every case? Can you raise your hand? Mr. Reine. Sorry. So would you say that this one size fits all, so everybody who is guilty, who, you know, who is found to be, you know, if there is domestic violence found within the home, they are required to take this 52 week abuser course. Do you think that that is something that is suitable? That is kind of, would you say that that's sort of like a one size fits all mandate? Or would that, do you think that maybe it should be maybe, you know, catered depending on the scenario? Ms. Riney, Ms. Riney. Thank you. I think that, and I'm assuming that you are, we're leading to when findings occur that, when false findings might happen, right? Currently, similar things already happen, right? When we've heard stories already today where parents who are the victims end up being treated like the perpetrator, and they end up losing contact. And so I think that this at least puts in a safeguard where, hey, we can be evaluated by someone who knows what they're talking about. And that way, so yes, we can one size fits all. So that way, if false allegations do turn into findings, they can be evaluated by somebody that is accredited to decide whether, hey, are you a perpetrator? Do you fit the bill, if you will? And then if they don't, they can bring that evidence back to the table and have a better opportunity to regain access to their child than they do as of current. Ms. Flanell, Representative Flanell, sorry. Any further questions for this panel? Seeing none, thank you, panel. Do we have the Honorable Edie Hudak? Kat Klimiko. Dr. Shannon Tyson-Poletti. Mallory Armstrong. Michelle Webster. Maggie Vandenberg. Jacqueline Joy. And it's Tricia Krabish. Are you in person? Please. Please. One more bell.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Thank you, Rep. Froelich.

Derek Skelchokother

Ms. Krupp, go ahead and get situated. State your name, who you represent, and you will have three minutes. Is it not working? No, you just turned it off. There you go. It's still not working? Start over, Ms. Krobb. You have three minutes. Thank you.

Judy Atwoodother

My name is Trisha Krobb, and I represent myself. I knew that I would never be able to divorce my husband because he was an attorney, and I was forced to be a stay-at-home mom to our three children. I knew he would make divorce impossible. He had already told me that if I ever left him, I would never see my children again. He said I would have to prostitute myself to make any money to be able to survive. This bill is not saying parental responsibilities will be allocated based on allegations. This bill is saying that prior to allocating parental responsibilities, domestic violence needs to be determined, and that's true. We are not talking about high-conflict divorce. We are talking about abuse. My ex was charged with five felonies and four misdemeanors, one of which was child abuse prior to me filing for divorce I thought that meant family court would protect me and the children Instead we were left facing years of post abuse I was warned by attorneys and other court professionals that I would have to give my kids' abuser access to them even after he took a gun to school and told me that I would never see them again. I was under the microscope. I was threatened with parental alienation. The stress we lived under took such a toll. We had stomach issues, sleep issues, and a hypervigilance I don't think you can understand unless you have experienced it. My children struggled to leave the house for years because they thought their father was going to kidnap them. I fought for 694 days to be free of my abuser. Even after he was found guilty and sentenced to 12 years to life in prison, it still took months to get a divorce. Even after the divorce was finalized, he continued to use family court as a weapon, refusing to sign documents and costing me months of my life to get him to do what was court ordered and part of our signed and accepted MOU. This is post-separation abuse. This is weaponizing the court system to punish victims. When I filed for divorce, my ex immediately stopped paying all the bills and canceled all of the insurance and was not providing a penny of support for his three children. Then he went to the court and filed a motion for spousal maintenance. Judge Cajardo Lindsay granted that order. I was forced to pay my abuser spousal maintenance. After his conviction of those heinous crimes against me, he filed a motion to increase spousal maintenance because, and I quote, the items in commissary are more expensive than market value. Every single thing my ex did during our divorce proceedings hurt our children. An abusive parent, especially one who is actively abusing the other parent through post-separation abuse, is absolutely not acting in the best interest of the children. This must be considered when allocating parental responsibilities. My ex weaponized family court and he used the children to continue to abuse me. My three children and I were left bankrupt and unhoused, all because of this post-separation abuse, filing of frivolous motions, intentionally running up attorney fees, intentional delays in the proceedings, harassment, stalking, and abuse, all in the name of family court. I was told by the court there was nothing anyone could do. A parent who is doing that is not able to make safe decisions regarding a child. The kids and I have spent years in counseling and are working to rebuild. If there is anything I can do to ensure that no other person has to experience this type of forced contact and post-separation abuse, I will do that. It was a type of hell I don't wish upon anyone, and it happens every single day. It was nearly impossible for me, and I had a criminal case. And all I can do is wonder about the victims who don't have anything criminal, because we all know that domestic violence happens in silence. Thank you for your time.

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you, ma'am. So if you can state your name and who you represent, you also have three minutes.

Christy Neelyother

Okay. Good afternoon. My name is Jacqueline Joy. I represent myself. After multiple attorneys over eight years and no meaningful resolution to ongoing legal and financial coercion, I am now a pro se parent of three children, ages 13, 10, and 9. Give me a second. I just have listened to all of those things that are similar to mine. I am here to support the House Bill 261309 For years this system has been weaponized against my family enabling ongoing abuse I have exhausted every financial resource and even faced homelessness, not for failure, but to respond to litigation that perpetuates coercive control, financial abuse, and continued harm to my children and me. My children have suffered multiple forms of ongoing abuse. including strangulation and a felony of menacing with a real or simulated weapon due to continued 50-50 parenting time and decision making with no safeguards. Despite investigations, multiple ones including CPS, forensic interviews from the police and three separate parental responsibility evaluators, critical evidence was ignored and my children were left unprotected. One evaluator accused me of making false allegations without basic due diligence. He did not contact the detective nor reporting medical professional in an active sexual abuse investigation regarding one of my children. He further advised that he would recommend restricting my parenting time if I subject my child to additional medical examinations, even though my child required medical care and I was following the guidance of the detective on the case. Yet he stated, and I quote in all caps in my evaluation, if mother continues, unfortunately for the children, a restriction of her parenting time should be reviewed by the honorable court despite her otherwise excellent parenting skills. That evaluator is a convicted domestic violence abuser. Later, the subject was a class action lawsuit, of which I was a main plaintiff. Unfortunately, that case was dismissed, a great travesty for many, and he left the state and is now practicing in another. Another evaluator resigned after I presented a preponderance of evidence to the court demonstrating wrongdoing related to his policies and ethical standards and more. Throughout this process, the third evaluator and opposing counsel failed to comply with federal ADA requirements, further exacerbating harm to my children and me. My children experience and are diagnosed with PTSD, anxiety, and major depressive episodes, have expressed thoughts of self-harm at a very young age. I have complex PTSD, anxiety, and major depressive disorder, all connected outcomes of prolonged trauma and systematic failure of ongoing abuse. The result is a continued cycle after each failure. the burden returns to us to reprove and re-litigate with no stable place for hearing it is a daily struggle house bill 26 1309 matters because it changes that starting point under the standard of preponderance of evidence the court must first determine if abuse occurred with a presumption prioritizing the children's safety. If this framework has been applied at the beginning of my case, if it had been, my children would not have experienced years of continued harm. This bill creates accountability and interrupts the ability to use the system as a tool of ongoing control. It is time for our children to trust the system that is meant to protect them Thank you ma Thank you If you wanted to grab the mic get your name

Derek Skelchokother

How can we represent? You also have three minutes, ma'am.

Colleen Enosother

My name is Maggie Vandenberg. I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist within the state of Colorado, and I am a consultant on post-separation abuse matters and coercive control and an expert in that area. So basically, I apologize. I was driving here listening to the beginning part, and then I changed my testimony. So real quick, as an LMFT, we receive specialized training to the ethical obligation of determining whether domestic violence is occurring or if it's situational. So if somebody has one or two instances of what we typically know as domestic violence, so physical abuse, physical interactions. We do not consider that necessarily domestic violence that we shouldn't treat with couples or families because that is more situational violence. A lot of families have fights in the home, right? What we consider domestic violence is coercive control, which in most of those cases, they may not have ever hit somebody. and so I guess as I was reading this last night through a fine-tooth comb, I was educated at an excellent graduate school and I'm sending this to them to include in their curriculum. This is a wonderful starting point for coercive control and explaining it and it's not the event of one of these. In the cases, the 400 plus cases that you're referencing, multiple of these are going to be found. The next point that I wanted to make in section three is with post-separation abuse, it ends up in court in years. And the coercive control that occurs in the relationship then follows with them. And what we found is domestic violence perpetrators just get better in a different way. So when you're looking at how judges should make their determinations, these are not the things in the first part of page 11 that I would look at as an assessor for domestic violence, coercive control, and post-separation abuse. section 5 I have seen one case in my work where children were kept safe it did not protect the mother from a continued abuse and they followed these recommendations and it was not in Colorado this does not mean all of these are exhaustive that they have to do every one of these and it just provides a framework flowchart for how to make the determinations. Thank you.

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you, ma'am. State your name, who you represent. You will also have three minutes.

Kat Clomacoother

Thank you. Good afternoon, and thank you for the opportunity to speak today. My name is Kat Clomaco, and I represent myself. I am a protective parent and a survivor of domestic violence. I'm here today in support of this bill because my son and I are one of the lucky few that have been afforded significant protection by the courts as a result of the of findings of domestic violence in our custody case. I have spent $375,000 my entire life savings and six and a half years trapped in the family court system trying to protect my son from ongoing abuse. Two years ago, after a six months long parental responsibilities evaluation, the second in our case, and an extensive three-day evidentiary hearing, a dedicated Denver family court judge spent time reviewing the extensive evidence of domestic violence and child endangerment and neglect supported by testimony from my son's providers. Due to the overwhelming number of cases on our judge's docket, we waited five excruciating months to receive orders from the court, while my son continued to live in an abusive environment. On June 20, 2024, orders were issued granting me primary custody and sole legal decision-making in all areas as a result of extensive findings of domestic violence through the exercise of coercive control and child endangerment. Just one year and nine months after those orders were issued and in that short time, my son has made such significant progress in his healing that his teachers, my family and friends have called it a miracle. Those orders provided life-saving protection and changed the course of my son's life. And I will be forever grateful to the judge who protected us. But this story does not have a happy ending. Five months ago, my son reported a significant incident of abuse by his father to his therapist and a CPS caseworker. And only one month ago, through the exercise of broad judicial discretion, absent the statutory required findings of endangerment necessary to reopen custody in less than two years, a judge ignored the extensive history of domestic violence and child endangerment in our case and granted our abuser's request to drag us back to court. The time that is being given to a known abuser should instead be spent on other families, giving them the opportunity to have their case heard and receive protection. It is clogging the court's docket and wasting taxpayer dollars. The judiciary has argued that requiring judges to review domestic violence evidence and make written findings is too costly. I would argue the opposite. When domestic violence is ignored or minimized, these are the cases that clog the courts for decades and cause significant trauma to children and abused parents. Even when domestic violence survivors are able to secure safety from the court, abusers do not stop. They wield the family court system as a weapon of abuse and in the process waste judicial resources through endless campaigns of retaliatory litigation. This bill provides the courts with clear process and clear guidance when domestic violence is present and prioritizes the safety and well-being of children and abused parents. Children should not have to grow up experiencing life-altering abuse simply because the system failed to recognize it properly. Judges, making clear findings and prioritizing safety is not an administrative burden. It is the job. I strongly urge you to support this bill so that the courts handle domestic violence cases more consistently and clearly and in a way that actually protects children and families. Thank you.

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you, ma'am. If you can state your name, who you represent, you have three minutes.

Lori Grimmelsteinother

Yes. Thank you, Vice Chair Carter and members of the committee for allowing me to testify today. My name is Dr. Shannon Tyson-Poletti. I'm a psychiatrist, a person with lived experience. Is it not on Okay sure A person with lived experience and the co of Zero Child Abuse We are here again because the judiciary continues to ignore the rules of evidence in child custody and parenting time cases. The courts oppose this bill because of cost. They estimate that about 2.4% of domestic violence, domestic relations cases involving a child approximately 400 cases per year go to trial. I would think such a low percentage would represent only the most disturbing and difficult cases. We know that abusers lie and often refuse to negotiate or mediate. We also know that they often resist help. This bill seems to me to be an opportunity for the judiciary to invest in both our children and in perpetrators. Holding abusive parents accountable by requiring treatment in order to gain emotional health and heal their relationships with the children is the ideal outcome to healing for children. If this can't happen, giving children protection from abuse and or witnessing domestic violence allows them to heal. So I want to do a quick cost-benefit analysis. Assuming these families average two children per family, then the investment by the judiciary would be $680 per child. That's a one-time cost. Many studies have shown that children who experience abuse and domestic violence have an increased risk for chronic illnesses throughout their lifetime. They have brain changes that cause poor attention, learning difficulties, increased risk for substance use, and chronic mental illness. They have a lower overall educational achievement, occupational achievement, and lower lifetime income, and they have increased risk for criminal involvement. Over a lifetime, the cost for a high number of adverse childhood experiences per child is between $650,000 and $830,000. Using the most conservative study and Colorado's income tax rate, this equates to a cost for the state of Colorado between $45,000 and $92,000 lifetime to the state per child. That depends on Medicare use over time. So investing $680 per child one time could save the state of Colorado $92,000 per child. I encourage you to require the courts to hold to the rules of evidence and to hold abusers accountable to invest in children's well-being and to pass this bill. Thank you.

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you, Doctor. Online, is there, yes, Ms. Noriano, Ms. Evie Hudak, you have three minutes.

Evie Hudakother

State your name and who you represent. Thank you, Mr. Chair. I'm Evie Hudak here representing Colorado PTA. We strongly support this bill. As I've told this committee before, a founding purpose of PTA is to promote safety for children and youth. We advocate for policies and laws that protect children from violence and violent behavior. And one of our priorities is to recognize, reduce and eliminate conditions that cause children and youth to be at risk. Domestic violence and child abuse tend to be portrayed as self singular problems In fact the opposite is true According to research approximately 30 to 60 of families in which either adult domestic violence or child maltreatment is occurring also experience the other form of violence. In short, there is a clear connection between domestic violence and child abuse. Furthermore, children who witness domestic violence are at serious risk for long-term physical and mental health problems. Children in homes where a parent is abused may feel fearful and anxious. They may always be on guard, wondering when the next violent event will happen. This can cause them to react in different ways depending on their age, including difficulty falling asleep, feeling guilty about the abuse and blaming themselves for it, having frequent headaches and stomach aches, and engaging in risky behaviors such as having unprotected sex and using alcohol or drugs. They may have low self-esteem and have trouble making friends. They may start fights or bully others and are more likely to get in trouble with the law. Even more troubling, there is a correlation between many types of trauma and suicidal behaviors. I myself am directly aware of these risks from my own experience working with troubled teenagers in residential treatment. When I wrote this testimony, I didn't even contemplate children being murdered by domestic violence abusers, but that is the biggest risk they suffer. PTA is certain that this bill will make children safer. Thank you.

Derek Skelchokother

There we go. Michelle Webster. Online. Thank you, ma'am. You have three minutes. State your name and who you represent.

Michelle Websterother

Thank you. Good afternoon, chair and members of the committee. Thank you for the opportunity to testify. My name is Michelle Webster. I am a lawyer and policy advocate. I've spent my career working on reforms to help families and communities thrive, focusing on a range of issues, including justice system reform, health care affordability and access, consumer protection and economic security. I have served as a law clerk for a judge on a criminal and civil docket in a busy urban court. I have drafted model legislation and advised legislators on policy issues. But most importantly, I'm a mother, and I'm here today in support of HB 26-1309 as a Colorado parent with direct experience in our state's family court system. In my own experience navigating the family court system, I saw how concerns about domestic violence, abuse, and coercive control can be minimized or addressed too late in the process. That creates significant risk for children and for the parent working to keep them safe. Children are harmed when patterns of domestic violence, abuse, and coercive control are not taken seriously from the outset. In the most tragic cases, that failure has led to the loss of children lives But harm also occurs in less visible ways When children are placed or required to maintain relationships in environments where they are not safe and where their experiences have been dismissed or misunderstood by the court. In my own case, my teenage daughter reached a point where she no longer felt safe with her father and refused contact. One judge recognized the complexity of that situation and did not force contact while the case was pending. Later, we were assigned a different judge, a newly appointed magistrate, who appeared far less familiar with and dismissive of domestic violence and coercive control dynamics in our case, despite findings from the previous judge. And that is one of the core problems that this bill addresses. Outcomes should not depend on which judge you happen to get and how prepared they are in understanding and applying the law in these complicated cases. Judges have an incredibly difficult role. These cases are complex, even under any circumstances, and even more so when domestic violence is present. But these are also some of the highest stakes decisions judges in our state make every day with long-lasting consequences for children's safety and well-being. We should not accept a system where the thorough trauma-informed application of the best interest of the child standard varies from courtroom to courtroom. This bill brings needed clarity and consistency by requiring courts to address domestic violence up front and strengthening how these cases are evaluated. It ensures that safety is treated as a foundational consideration, not just one factor among many. It gives courts clear direction to prioritize safety in every case where domestic violence, abuse and course of control is raised. I'm supportive of the amendments offered on this bill to address the fiscal note and urge you to vote yes on 1309. Thank you for your time.

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you, Ms. Webster. Members, do we have questions for this panel? Representative Kelty.

Representative Keltyassemblymember

Thank you, Ms. Chair. First of all, I want to thank everyone for coming and sharing your stories. and I know that they're real, and I personally can tell you that I understand. I think my question may be for Ms. Webster, just because to pick one, I guess you could say, my concern is the ability to put more tools or weapons in the offender or the bad person's pocket. But Ms. Webster, do you believe that this bill would basically be able to add to their toolbox to be used against you? How would you feel if they could use this bill or this law against you?

Michelle Websterother

Ms. Webster. Thank you, and I appreciate the question. I do believe that this bill can be helpful, and I agree with what others who have testified in support of the bill have said, that this is one step that's needed in our state to ensure that children's safety is of primary concern. In my view, this bill directs judges to take... the totality of the context in mind when domestic violence, abuse and coercive control allegations have been raised. And I hear that it has been used. Those allegations have been used against the protective parent. That is unfortunate. And I absolutely believe that that happens every day in our courts. The hope here is that if I would say that judges are directed to take domestic violence into consideration and making custody decisions, that they would then do so and take it seriously. I also believe that judges should be trained on these issues. I know that's not at issue in this bill, but these are really complicated issues. And if judges are to make decisions taking into account these dynamics, they should understand how they show up in these cases.

Derek Skelchokother

Representative Kelty.

Representative Keltyassemblymember

Thanks, Chair. I guess where I was trying to go with my questioning was if the broad context of this bill and the terms that they use could be used to question your parenting, how would you feel, though, if this bill was used against you particularly?

Michelle Websterother

Ms. Webster. Thank you for the question. How would I feel if this bill was used against me? I think that would be a very scary situation, but I do not think that's – the intention here is to address that situation, to direct a judge to take into account, like I said, the totality of the situation and be able to see what's really happening. Representative Kelty.

Derek Skelchokother

Representative Clifford.

Representative Cliffordassemblymember

Thank you, Mr. Chair. May I dialogue with Ms. Krob?

Derek Skelchokother

Yes. Thank you.

Judy Atwoodother

Thank you.

Representative Cliffordassemblymember

Ms. Krob, we don't often ask a lot of questions of victims. One of the reasons I don't is because I'll end up crying with you. We are up here hearing the same testimony. And in your case, since I know you, I assert that it's okay to ask you some questions about your situation that have been something over the last few years, knowing your situation, your family, having seen kind of all of it unfold, the absolutely unbelievable, like shock to the system type engagement that kind of has made me aware and understand more and more and more of what other women such as yourself have come and testified really over and over and over, so many things that sound so the same. Can you share a little bit about your engagement with Family Court

Judy Atwoodother

where you were ordered to pay spousal support to your lawyer husband while he was both out and in prison and kind of the process that went through that I think that there was a few things that I didn hear in your testimony that I know to be the case Can you share just a bit more about that process Yes thank you for the question for letting me expand on it. As a stay-at-home mom, I was emboldened to finally file for divorce after my ex had been charged, and I was told by every single attorney that I consulted with that the financial status quo of the marriage would have to be maintained. While my ex had been arrested and charged, his law license was untouched. Nothing had been reported to the bar association. If anything, they said the judge would tell him that he was voluntarily underemployed. He could go get a job at McDonald's. He could do something to support his children. There is that injunction when you file for divorce that everything has to stay the same. My ex immediately cut me off from every account, stopped paying every bill, canceled the homeowner's insurance, the car insurance, the health insurance. He did everything he could to make it appear that I was an unfit mother. That was the message that I was receiving that, hey, you can't even take care of your children. And my attorney would say, hey, she didn't have three kids by herself. She didn't buy this home by herself. You need to be doing those things. And we went to temporary orders only. I didn't even ask for child support. I only was asking for help with shared expenses. I never once said, hey, you still have to do this. I'm better than you. I don't care. I said, I just need help paying for our kids' things. I never asked for spousal support. He showed up to court, asked for spousal support, brought a handmade spreadsheet. I brought stacks of papers from my going back to work and my, you know, very measly bank account. And the judge said, because I did not show my 14-year-old daughter's bank account, that my ex was more credible than I was. And because his income was zero that I had to pay him. And it was shocking. My attorney was nearly held in contempt for arguing with the judge. And there was nothing that we could do about it. He was taking food directly out of his children's mouths and everything he did hurt the children. Luckily, we had an incredible child and family investigator, which I know is not always the case for people and she was able to show how his continued abuse of me was abuse to his children and we had to fight hard even after his conviction for me to stop having to pay my abuser which now thank you representative is now against the law right in colorado to for victims to have to pay their abuser it was like i said an experience i wouldn't wish upon anybody i was threatened with jail time. I was held in contempt. It was unbelievable, which is why it's a book now, too.

Derek Skelchokother

You can't make this stuff up. We're in dialogue, so I'm just going to go back and forth with you a little bit. So this bill is really focused around the domestic violence piece and that being and where and how it's considered in family court. And I've heard some people say today that they have concerns that that too could become weaponized. I'm confronting that a little bit, quite honestly, to make sure that we don't create a situation where that can go again. I know, having heard your testimony, you've read this bill. Can you talk to me what your view is on

Judy Atwoodother

how this might have impacted your case I think if this had been in effect with my case that it would have cut through a lot of that baloney and the games that my ex was able to play in family court because it laid out a little bit clearer. And I would say no matter what bills get passed along these lines, when we're looking at family court and abuse, I guarantee you that the offender is going to weaponize it against the victim. It doesn't matter what it is. They will find anything that they can use against you. I did not take an Advil for over two years because I was accused in court of abusing over-the-counter medication. And I knew that he was stalking me and we had it on record and the criminal court said, he's not stalking you. He's just keeping track of his house and his car and his children. And I knew that they had somebody following me. I mean, it doesn't matter. They will weaponize this or anything else. It feels impossible to truly stay protected as a survivor. And I think a bill like this is going to make big strides in the right direction and that this is needed. Because like I said, I felt lucky that I had all this police evidence and I can't imagine what people, when they just are saying, hey, this is what is happening to me, and you just have to hopefully believe me and take my word for it, what they are up against.

Derek Skelchokother

I'm just going to ask you, and not that you have to be the legal mind here, because we do have a lot of them on this committee, is there anything that you think that we should be doing differently about it as far as how we're front-loading DV, any way that you might see that might keep someone from weaponizing it. I do think, like I believe Ms. Warner said that, you know, having judges and other court professionals more informed and trained about these things, whereas historically, we have judges who have come forward saying, hey, I was trained to be suspicious of allegations of abuse and the timing of things. And, you know, I still have this view of you're a hysterical woman and you're a gold digger. And that is, you know, your motive in my courtroom to show just how

Judy Atwoodother

complicated these things are. I have a master's degree in social work. I have worked with survivors while I was in an abusive marriage and I still didn't see what was happening to me. I still made excuses. I still had blinders on. I mean, it is wildly confusing. And I think that that aspect needs to be addressed. And, you know, confusing people, making word salad is what abusers do. Everything is a circus so that even the judge isn't sure what they're ruling on anymore. And so if we can help court professionals with that, and I think this bill, a very basic one is like, hey, this is domestic violence, coercive control, sexual coercion, financial coercion, these patterns. This is domestic violence. And when somebody has those traits and those patterns, you have to change the way that you're looking at things and dealing with people.

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you so much for coming and thank you all. Thank you. Members, any further questions for this panel? Representative Kelty.

Christy Neelyother

Thanks, Chair. This question is for Ms. Hudak. I listen to your testimony and I do have a question I like to know your clarification of what coercive control is in the sense like if a parent forces you know or makes their kid go to church when they don want to or anything would you consider that a coercive control?

Judy Atwoodother

Ms. Hudak? I would have to think about that.

Derek Skelchokother

Representative Keltz.

Christy Neelyother

That's beyond, you know, beyond what we typically consider when we're talking about domestic violence and child abuse. We do a PTA does have a position about control, parental control, and it should not be harmful to the child. I think maybe it's being taken too far to say that a parent is requiring a child to go to church.

Judy Atwoodother

I can't state a position on that specifically.

Derek Skelchokother

Representative Kelty.

Christy Neelyother

Thanks, Chair. What is your what would be your stance on what would your stance on if, for example, a child has a disagreement with a parent about pronouns or or gender identity or anything like that? Would you consider that coercive control?

Judy Atwoodother

Ms. Hudak. Again, I can't define coercive control, but I would say that PTA's position is that parents should should consider their child's preference and allow their children to to be what they want to be.

Derek Skelchokother

Representative Keltie.

Christy Neelyother

So then are you saying that falls in line with an abuse? Is that the stance?

Judy Atwoodother

Ms. Hudak. You mean a parent refusing to accept a child's pronouns?

Derek Skelchokother

I apologize. Representative Kelty and Ms. Hudak, do you guys want to dialogue?

Judy Atwoodother

And by the way, you should refer to me as Senator, not Miss, because, you know, I hold that title. I held that title.

Derek Skelchokother

Senator Hudak, Representative Kelty, would you like to dialogue? Any further questions for this panel? Thank you, Pam. So next we will call. Do I have. Alyssa Marsh. Veronica David. Ashley Durham, Lindsay Cutter, Stephanie Atkinson, Is there anyone in the room that wants to testify and has not testified? Can you come forward? Is there anyone online that has not testified? And testifying in a four position? Once again, anyone in the room that has not testified that would like to testify in a four position? Anyone online that has not testified that would like to testify in a four position? Yes. All right. Thank you. Starting from my right, if you can state your name, who you represent, you have three minutes, and if you can press the gray button. There you go. You have three minutes, sir.

Colleen Enosother

Hi, my name is Reardon Julian. I represent myself, and I'm here to talk about the children who get abused, because this bill is not just about parents, which I'm assuming you've heard talk all day, and they do get hurt by divorce and abuse every single day, but the children who would be saved by this bill being put in place is what I'm here to talk about. When six years ago, my parents separated. I ended up seeing my dad more than I ever did in my entire life. He chose never to really be in my life any events. Me and my brother had my mom always took us. and because the court said I had to go to him, I saw him so much more. It was like twice a week when I'd only seen him like maybe one every two weeks before that point. Before the divorce and after he was verbally abusing me and my mom, when I went to him, it started getting worse. He would push me down in a soccer field. He would cut me down and make me question my reality. If a bill like this was in place, children would not have to go through that abuse again, or at least it would be looked into more deeply and definately. So I urge every single one of you to please, if you truly care about your children more than you care about yourselves, more than you care about what people think about you, I urge you please vote yes for this bill. That's all I'm here to say.

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you, sir. Ma'am, if you can state your name. We represent you have three minutes. Yes. Oh, the gray button. There you go. Okay.

Kat Clomacoother

Hi, my name is Julia Julian, and I'm here to ask you to vote yes on this bill. We all know family court is broken. We know that there's so much post-separation abuse. what this bill would do to kids is prevent abuse instead of having kids later on have trauma for the rest of their life and now we have all this therapy and all this help for them after the abuse this would prevent lifelong trauma it would prevent going to funerals of kids that are killed. It would prevent suicides of so many children of divorce that they have suffered so long It would prevent kids wanting to kill themselves It would prevent so many things and we could put our energy into our laws our finances and help these kids What this bill says, it states that before you go to court, the judges would have a flowchart. They would have an outline. I know for a fact I lived this for seven years. Judges don't read cases, they don't even know your names or the cases before they go in, this would give them some guidelines. This bill is putting child's rights to safety, a child's right to a peaceful, healthy life before abusive, toxic parenting time. This bill, we talked about false allegations. There's false allegations rampant out there. But if we had a group like this bill states to look into that before we give parenting time, then we can prevent so much tragedy. It's never going to be perfect. Nobody's perfect. The person before us said, could we prevent anybody for abusing these laws or using them to themselves? No, that's where people are human. There are people that are very evil out there. In my case, my two sons had to go to their parents. They have suffered many, much mental, emotional, physical abuse. I fought really hard. Of course, all the allegations came that I was the bad parent, that I was keeping them from there, and all I wanted was for them to be protected. My 16-year-old son noticed in one of these other cases and this case that so much about it is about the parents and not about the children. We really need to stand up for children. They don't have a voice like you and I do. My one son just hit 18, so now he doesn't have to deal with all of this. But the abuse that happens, the deaths that happen to children, let's stop that from happening. Please vote yes on HB 261309.

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you. To be clear, we have Ms. Grimmelstein from earlier, and you're in a post position, correct?

Lori Grimmelsteinother

Ma'am. Hi, good afternoon, chair and committee members. Yes, I am.

Derek Skelchokother

One second, ma'am. Ms. Grimmelstein, you have two minutes or three minutes. I apologize. State your name and who you represent.

Lori Grimmelsteinother

Thank you, chair members of the committee. My name is Lori Grimmelstein, and I serve as the executive director of the Colorado Parent Advocacy Network. I'm urging a no vote on House Bill 26-1309. I want to begin by acknowledging the testimony that we've just heard. The pain, the fear, the courage it takes these people to share their experiences is not lost on me. No parent or child should ever have to endure that kind of abuse. And there absolutely must be very strong, meaningful protections in place to keep families safe. That is something that we absolutely all agree on. Where I struggle and where I believe we need to really pause and think carefully today is whether this bill truly protects those families or if it could create unintended consequences. So I ask this with very deep respect. What would it feel like if someone who had harmed you and your children learned how to use this law against you? We're already seeing it across the state of Colorado. The Colorado Parent Advocacy Network is helping parents advocate on behalf of them getting their children back Parents who have lost custodial rights of their children simply for asking their children to wait on an irreversible decision If your abuser was able to take your reasonable protective parenting decisions and have them labeled as abuse and then use that against you to gain leverage over custody of your child, how would that make you feel? In our efforts to protect families, we have to be absolutely certain we are not creating a pathway that could be used to harm them further. You've already heard earlier today from parents, professionals, and advocates across the state outlining very serious concerns with this bill's language. I'm not going to repeat all of those points, but they do remain unresolved. What I will say is this. There's a growing, undeniable pattern, not just with this bill, but with last year's House Bill 1312 and this year's Senate Bill 18, which House Bill 1312 move forward with support upon party-line votes, even as our organization alone submitted over 32,000 signatures from Coloradans opposing the reclassification of responsible parenting as abuse. And yet we're here again. And so the question is, why does this legislature keep advancing policies that Coloradans have already rejected? Why are we continuing to see proposals that push beyond unconstitutional boundaries and disregard parental rights. And I want to speak directly, and I'm appealing to the seven Democrats on this committee who represent Denver, Adams, Arapahoe, Jefferson, and Larimer counties, because I know and expect the Republican members were probably going to oppose this bill. You have the ability right now to do the right thing and stop this unconstitutional legislation and protect all families. Today, the United States Supreme Court reaffirmed yet again in a clear and overwhelming decision that constitutional protections are not optional and that the state of Colorado cannot override fundamental rights. That should give every member of this committee pause because what we are watching is the same pattern play out again, an expansion of government power, a direct attack on parental rights, and a direct collision course with the Constitution. So the question before you is not complicated. How many times do the people of Colorado and the highest court in the land have to say no before you start listening? Please give this serious constitutional concerns raised today consideration. I strongly encourage this committee to postpone this bill indefinitely.

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you, ma'am. Is there Stephanie Atkinson? Ms. Atkinson, can you state your name and who you represent? You'll have three minutes. Thank you.

Evie Hudakother

My name is Stephanie Atkinson, and I'm representing myself. I am here today not only as a mother, but as a survivor. For years, I was trapped in a dangerous cycle of abuse that included repeated physical assaults with black eyes, stringing relation to the point of unconsciousness, breaking of my bones, and having guns placed to my head. I endured the fear and trauma far longer than I should have. When the violence began to escalate towards my children, most notably an ongoing strangulation case involving my 10-year-old, I knew remaining silent was no longer an option. When I made the courageous decision to leave, I sought help from a DV shelter and began developing an escape plan, an escape and safety plan. Unfortunately, when my abuser learned of my intent to leave, he retaliated. He took our children and a firearm to a local hotel and cut off all communication. Shortly afterward, he manipulated the legal system by having me falsely arrested for stalking. An intentional effort to control the narrative in family court and silence me as a true victim He then took full custody of the kids while I fought the charges and the protection order While the kids were in full custody of his care, they were severely emotionally abused by control. Their toys were smashed. Their dad forced them to lie to DHS and even threatened that they would be put in foster care if they didn't lie for him. Although the charges against me were dropped and sealed within three and a half days, the trauma did not disappear. He had shifted the narrative. Every photo, every recording and every piece of evidence I presented was painted as vindictive. Months later, he assaulted me again in front of our children. But I was brave enough to call the police. However, even after he was arrested and pled guilty to domestic violence, the family court still ordered to drop the kid's protective order and force their kids into visitation and weekly phone calls. Those orders caused them severe emotional distress and had nightmares. They now refuse to sleep in their own rooms at nine and 10 years old. Despite this, I was then required to pay for a CFI after his attorney bullied me and accused me of withholding the children and refusing a co-parent. He was only ordered DV treatment through criminal court. And still today, I do not have those reports. He even requested alimony from me. I have spent nearly $50,000 in legal fees. He still threatens further legal action if I ask for proper child support, stating, and his attorney flaunts, that Colorado has very fair parenting laws. That cycle of abuse will continue if this doesn't change. The safety of our children must come before the illusion of fairness in parent time. Survivors should not have to go bankrupt to keep their children safe. Now, while my story has a good ending, the cause is overwhelming. I'm drowning in debt. The abuse did not end with separation. it still continues legally and emotionally for both me and my children. Every parent who is forced to choose between financial ruin for their child's safety is why I ask you to pass HB 1309, should survivors should be protected, believed, and supported, not re-traumatized by the systems meant to help them.

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you, ma'am. Members, do we have questions for this panel? seeing none thank you for your testimony no one else is online to testify yes yes oh i apologize um miss rinsall yes state your name thank you who you represent you have

Michelle Websterother

three minutes i apologize no worries thank you so much um my name is andrea writzell and i'm representing myself. I'm the mother of two children. One is medically fragile and has an intellectual disability. I've been the primary caregiver of our children. Our son had cancer, epilepsy, failure to thrive with feeding tube and a high hypoxia, which requires oxygen at times, global developmental delays, autism, and immune disorder requiring weekly infusions. Our son requires 24-7 care. During the marriage, I couldn't work for anyone else for a few years until our son was finished with cancer treatment. There was financial abuse within the marriage that I had to beg for money to pay bills and buy groceries and was forced to work for him and only him as I couldn't care for our son to travel for his treatment and work for someone else. The father of our children did everything to undermine my caregiving and parenting. He never went to any of the 33 treatments or scans for our son's treatment except for the first week of diagnosis. During our separation when the father of our children had presumed 50-50, a temporary organization, First, father caused our son a concussion. Severe facial lacerations did not take him to the hospital. He broke our son's finger, which required two casts and a splint, shutting his hand in the car door and did not take him to the hospital. Spray both of his ankles, which required him to be in a wheelchair for two to three weeks and did not take him to the hospital when he couldn't walk. Broke his arm with a compound fracture that had the bone through the muscle, which required three pins and a cast. Father took our son to the mountains without life-saving oxygen. that just six weeks prior was required at a special needs camp. We were both notified daily of oxygen saturations and seizures by the therapist and registered nurse at the camp. Father had been reported so many times by the various health professionals that are mandatory reporters. He told the social worker that he believed I had Munchausen's by proxy, which is where I'm trying to kill our child slowly for attention. The social worker at Department of Human Services had no medical background. had caused a full hospital investigation, which found for no medical abuse. He said in an email to a friend that he was using the children as a bargaining chip for the property end of the divorce. He told the court he didn't believe I had Munchausen's by proxy, but it had to be investigated.

Derek Skelchokother

Ma'am, your audio went off.

Michelle Websterother

Child neglect, environment injurious, exposure to illegal activity, by the state of Colorado and also in Texas. He took our child on a high-speed chase from cops while out of state without my consent on the week of his summer break. He was arrested and found guilty of felony evading with a deadly weapon. He had two loaded weapons in the vehicle, unsecured. We were blessed to have officers from Texas to testify in two hearings of family court. The court records reflect that he abused the children. He is still allowed therapeutic supervised visits, which he has only exercised one visit in over three and a half years. He was fired by that therapist after the first visit with our son. Years prior to this event, it was predicted in a parental responsibilities report that the evaluator was concerned about how safe our son would be in his father's care. The father of the children has threatened me over and over with litigation. Since the crime in Texas, Father has filed 44 documents within five months and was noted this year that he would be sanctioned if he continued his baseless and redundant filings. Father sent me a video multiple times of a lion attacking and killing an elk. He has sent this multiple times because, and because he didn't say he would kill me, no one can actually do anything. This bill will protect children that could be put in dangerous positions, not just based on the judge or magistrate's feelings or personality of the parent, but the actual documented facts. Please vote yes on HB 26 1309 to protect our children from abuse. Thank you.

Derek Skelchokother

Thank you, ma'am. I apologize again. Any questions for this panel? and seeing none, thank you. Thank you for your testimony. At this time, that wraps up the testimony. Sponsors, did you guys want to go through your amendments? Vice Chair Carter. Thank you very much Mr Chair I was going to ask Vice Chair Carter to move Oh okay Yeah move your amendment first We just been talking about Amendment 1 Okay Vice Chair Carter Okay.

Ms. Shipleyother

That's a proper motion by Vice Chair Carter, seconded by Rep. Garcia.

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Rep. Froehlich. Thank you very much. Sorry. My hearing is terrible. Thank you so much. Thanks for moving the amendment. We've been talking about this amendment, and hopefully everyone had an opportunity to review it fully. and we also sent around a pre-amend version of the bill that essentially integrated the amendment into the bill, and so we asked for a yes vote.

Derek Skelchokother

Committee members, other questions on L1? So we had been, we'd received L1 prior. We have physical copies here. Folks won and passed out, but because it was a multi-page, committee members received it 24 hours before the hearing. Okay, any questions on L1? Repslaw.

Representative Keltyassemblymember

I move another amendment, Chair. L003. Oh, it's an amendment to the amendment?

Derek Skelchokother

Yes. Okay. State your motion. State your motion. State which amendment, state the number of amendment that you're moving and state that you're moving it to L1.

Representative Keltyassemblymember

Thank you, Mr. Chair. I move amendment L003 to amendment L0101.

Derek Skelchokother

Okay, that's proper motion by Rep Sloss, seconded by Rep Soper. Please explain your amendment.

Representative Keltyassemblymember

Thank you, Mr. Chair. This amendment just makes it so that if a parent is acting in good faith due to a sincerely held belief, and as long as it is not causing any other of the types of abuse that were, or the actual abuses that were listed otherwise in the amendment, that that is, that it does not, yeah, that it doesn't limit their parenting time or decision-making responsibility. Okay.

Derek Skelchokother

Any questions for the amendment sponsor?

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Rev. Frelick. Thank you, Mr. Chair, and thank you, Representative Slaw, for this. I actually think that we have no problems with religious exemption and moral philosophical belief. I do not – I would not feel comfortable about B on this because I would have to go back to our folks. But I will say, as we proceed, we have been in communication about the concept of striking the health portion of the bill. That part actually came from the NFCJ whatever. and we would just then collapse it down to the coercive control portions of the bill. So I'm going to ask for a no on L3 while keeping a yes on L1. Hopefully it's not amended and make a commitment to the committee to continue to work on the health portion of the bill that was causing some consternation during testimony.

Derek Skelchokother

Okay further discussion Okay we going to hold for Rep Zocay so that we can have the vote Objection on this amendment Okay. Okay.

Ms. Shipleyother

Ms. Shipley, please call the roll. Representatives Bacon. No. Clifford. No. Espinosa. No. No. Yes. Garcia. No. Kelty. Yes. Yes.

Derek Skelchokother

Hang on. Soper.

Ms. Shipleyother

Yes. It's okay. I'm excused. Carter. No.

Derek Skelchokother

Mr. Chair. No. That amendment fails on a vote of 6 to 4. Back to the underlying question of L1. Is there any objection to L1? Okay. Seeing none, L1 is adopted. Bill sponsors, do you have any other amendments?

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Thank you, Mr. Chair. I did, I did, we did draft an amendment trying to get at accountability for judges. We drafted it because the advocates really wanted to press on this point of where is the accountability when these decisions lead to the abuser murdering the child. I understand there are huge constitutional implications, and basically the separation of legislative and judicial branch means that we really can't pursue any kind of dismissal of judges based on the decisions that they make, or there isn't even really a mechanism to review when judges' decisions lead to terrible outcomes. So we're not going to run that amendment. So no more amendments for me, I guess is what I'm saying.

Derek Skelchokother

Okay, committee members, do we have any other amendments? We're seeing none. The amendments phase is closed. Bill sponsors, wrap up. Whoever would like to begin.

Representative Rep. Storyassemblymember

Rep Story?

Representative Rep. Froelichassemblymember

Rep Berlick? You going or me? Oh, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. We want to be quick. Thank you so much, committee. I really appreciate the folks who came out to testify on all sides of this. I understand the concerns. I think there was particular emphasis on that one portion of the bill and consternation around the idea that parents would be held accountable for a differing religious belief or for different beliefs on various aspects of children's identity. And so as I mentioned in previous, I think we are looking to amend that portion of the bill. I would eliminate the health part and keep the course of control definition in statute. It was just – it was moved. But that piece did come from the NFC – I always get the initials wrong. But it's that model code, NCJFCJ. that helped us sort of flesh out some of those definitions And I did say in my communications that we are not seeking to change any definitions of what domestic violence is although we do want to see it all in one place. But I do think that the last witness was an expression of why these concerns about health decisions are so important for the court to consider. we see so much of medical decisions being used as a weapon in these situations. I also want to address some of the testimony and some of the communications that I've received from the disability community. We actually put in for a late bill on how family court is dealing with children with disabilities disabilities and it doesn't look like we're going to be able to get that late bill and I won't be here next year, but we are working on fixes in that that somebody else hopefully will take up and address because I do think we have had communications with folks who, again, it's related to medical. One parent is the primary caregiver of a disabled child when you have joint custody and the family unit is no longer living under the same roof, that child with severe disabilities or with medical concerns, when they are given joint parenting time to a parent, that other parent is sometimes either not able to or purposefully withholding care. So we have some bad outcomes in that, and I think we need to address that, but that's for another day, and I do have a commitment to that, somehow doing that. I do want to point out that in testimony, what we see is happening in family court is mandated ongoing communications with your abuser. And if you can just imagine if it was just a sex assault, whether it was from someone you knew or you didn't, and you went through a criminal proceeding, and then you were mandated by the court to continue talking to that abuser every couple of months for the rest of your, let's say, for 18 or 15 years. That's essentially what happens in family court, and it just continues the abuse in many cases. And so we do have language in the bill that talks about how to set up a communication plan that doesn't force the injured parties to continue this conversation, in-depth conversations with their abusers. One of our witnesses came to me and said, wow, when the opposition is testifying, a lot is about them, their rights and their considerations and their concerns, and said, when we come, we're talking about our kids and how to keep our kids safe. I think there's some validity to that, although I understand also where those folks are coming from. And I just want to say on this idea of allegations being used both ways, the allegation of parental alienation is the number one way for an abuser to turn the tables on the accuser, and it has been incredibly effective. That's why we're back here. That's why we were here eight years ago, seven years ago. This is DARVO, what is termed DARVO in the domestic violence scenario. So deny, accuse, reverse, victim, and offender. And it would be great if our family court judges and PREs and CFIs knew that. I just want to also update you on the status of training. We did mandate CFI and PRE training in domestic violence. We have no money in this state. I don't know if you've noticed that. So it is incumbent upon the PRE and the CFI to access that training and prove that they have taken it. In a perfect world and in other states, proper domestic violence training is conceived of and collaboratively conceived and then administered. We would like to get to that place. For the judges' training, they have a three-hour optional, at the current time, a three-hour optional domestic violence training that more and more judges are taking. Judicial keeps updating us on the number of judges, but it is inadequate. But we do think that this bill provides a blueprint, a flowchart, as we've said before, of how to approach these cases, which are difficult and are thorny and painful. but a way to upstream concerns about domestic violence to save some of the pain and repetitive court appearances. So anyway, that's a long way of saying please send us on. We understand there's definitions that require clarity. We understand there's more folks' voices that can be included, and we're the first committee in the first chamber, and we ask for an aye vote.

Derek Skelchokother

Rep Story.

Representative Rep. Storyassemblymember

Thank you, Mr. Chair, and thanks to the committee members for your attention and listening today, and I really appreciate the witnesses that came forward, especially those with personal stories that are just heartbreaking. I wanted to address a few things as my co-prime did relative to some concerns that were brought forward. Rebuttal presumption concerns. This was removed from the bill. And there could have been lots of confusion because there was the introduced version, and then we just passed this amendment that made some dramatic changes to the introduced version. but we are leaning on L001 now for anybody that might still be listening. There is concern about broadens the definition of domestic abuse to include coercive control, which is isolating children from family and friends, monitoring finances, regulating behavior, etc. All those definitions already exist in statute, and we just moved them. We relocated them, but we didn't change the definitions. Coercive control, including reproductive health care, this already exists in statute, in the model code. The issue with preponderance of the evidence standard, the judge only has to take domestic violence into consideration. And if it hits the standard, it's not a conviction. There's no rebuttable presumption. An issue with utilization of false allegations to weaponize a custody battle or weaponize in a custody battle This bill elucidates a pattern of abuse with evidence not one unsubstantiated allegation And then issues with the 52 mandate that doesn allow abusers to get the help they need mandating treatment prior to formal evaluation is problematic, but this 52-week mandate is a safeguard where anyone can be evaluated by an expert, and if allegations are false, they can be evaluated and evidence brought back to the table. So those were a few of the things that we heard today that came up. But I think in light of conversation that was held today and stakeholding that has been done over time, while this bill is not, you know, hugely comprehensive and doesn't expand, you know, or have a broad reach, I think it's an important step going forward. to ensure that judges consider what's been brought forward, the findings of domestic violence, before they then launch into best interests of the child that they are utilizing to determine parenting time and parenting responsibilities. And I think it's incredibly important, especially based on the stories that we heard of survivors of these whole scenarios of domestic violence and child abuse and sexual abuse. And we owe it to these individuals that were here today and thousands more that have been subjected to just horrid outcomes through family court to bring this forward and try to address this situation in these conditions. And I urge an I vote.

Derek Skelchokother

Vice Chair Carter, proper motion is to the Appropriations Committee. I move 1309 to the Appropriations Committee as amended with a favorable recommendation. Okay, that's proper motion, secondary reps. Okay, members, the Health Committee has 90 witnesses. They are currently on recess waiting for us to finish before they can start their next bill. so just keep that in mind if you want to make closing comments any closing comments okay Rep Slaw did you raise your hand okay Rep Kelty thanks Chair I do want to make my comment I kind of have my reservations about this bill and I kind of made it clear I think through the questioning that I did about it being possibly weaponized to allow an abuser to have more tools in their toolbox, such broad tools, if it was more narrowed down possibly. But that is one of my fears. I believe that the bill lowers the standard of proof. I believe that the bill uses preponderance of evidence but not clear and convincing or beyond reasonable doubt an issue. I believe it may constrain judges, especially in complex family situations, from being able to tailor their decisions adequately. I believe it could override the nuance in best interest of the child analysis. I believe that the bill also mandates a one requirement which we know that every situation is different and by putting something like that I afraid that it may cause more damage than what is intended which I'm sure I know the intention is good, but I'm afraid that it may not be. And not all cases are the same. And the one size fits all is bothersome for me. and as we heard there's a concern constitutionally I believe the 4th 14th and the 5th amendment were brought up that could be in violation. Custody could be restricted based on a low evidentiary standard I believe it promotes a presumption of guilt but I understand your desire to protect children. That's one of my main focuses throughout my life is protecting not just my children but other children if I can. But I do believe we need to be careful. Courts already use preponderance of evidence, so that portion is duplicative in my opinion. I think that judges do know what they're doing. They didn't become judges just because they just happened to win a ticket in a gumball machine. I think that they earned their way there. And to assume they don't know what they're doing is kind of offensive, in my opinion. And I believe that the bill risks overcorrection that may violate an innocent parent's rights. So because of all of that, I will have to be a no today. I just can't get there. Thank you, Mr. Chair. And thank you to the sponsors for bringing this bill. I think we all ought to and all do fully recognize that abuse is a horrible thing. There's probably much lower limits to the justice that I think that true abusers ought to deserve. than what we would probably do to them here in Colorado. I am disappointed that the amendment that I brought wasn't accepted. I think that there is a difference between having a difference of opinion between a child and a parent and true abuse. I think not acknowledging that dilutes what this bill actually does. there are very, very, very few things that I believe in more than the importance of family. And in the roles of parents and the responsibilities of parents, and key to those responsibilities as a parent, whether you're a father or whether you're a mother, is caring for your children, absolutely not abusing them. The stories that we heard of abuse are deeply disturbing, very frustrating. To me, as an individual who believes that, undoubtedly, the absolute most important thing that I can do and be responsible for in my lifetime is taking care of and caring for my children Am I perfect No Are any parents No Are parents that we talking about who are true abusers are they worthy of continuing to be able to influence and be abusive in those lives? No. But, again, I think we have to walk a very careful line in the words that we use in the bills that we write. I think that we miss the mark if we are not allowing for parents to parent, certainly not for parents to abuse, though. I hope that we can work on a couple of things if this bill passes from committee and make sure that we both protect children from abusers and protect parents' rights to be able to parent their children. Thank you. Rep. Flannell. Thank you, Mr. Chair. And I do want to thank the bill sponsors for bringing this forward and for everybody who testified today. I know it is a sensitive subject, and I do appreciate you guys being vulnerable. I will be honest, I was going to vote yes. And then the more I dug into the bill, the more I just realized there are quite a few issues. I question, you know, as the bill's written, does it help victims or does it create new harms for families already in crisis? And after a careful consideration, I do believe that it goes a little too far. I think the bill tilts the scales of justice in a way that deeply concerns me. So it allows life-altering presumptions about custody to flow from a civil finding based on a more likely than not standard, not proof beyond a reasonable doubt, not even clear and convincing evidence. Second, the bill assumes that our systems always correctly identify the true aggressor. Anyone who has spent time with real families in these situations know that that's not always the case. Sometimes both parties allege abuse, not to mention what this bill lists as coercive control, which I know some of it is in statute. It does make me wonder, though. I mean, a lot of it is at times good, responsible parenting. And then additionally, interference with or without preventing access to reproductive health care, contraceptives, and controlling the outcomes of pregnancy outcomes is incredibly concerning. We are moving beyond clear traditional notions of physical violence into more subjective territory, areas where honest disagreements over medical decisions, counseling, discipline, or values can be interpreted through an ideological lens. In a time when our society is deeply divided over questions of health care, gender, and family structure, we should be exceedingly careful about labeling one side of those debates as abusive simply because a professional or a court happens to disagree with the parent's judgment. And then third, the bill intertwines parental rights with mandatory lengthy intervention programs with the opinions of a narrow class of mental health professionals. It says, in essence, you may see your child again if and when you complete a 52-week program and convince a designated expert that you are sufficiently accountable and rehabilitated. That may sound good in theory, but it has real-world consequences. Low-income parents, parents in rural areas, and parents who cannot afford or access these programs will be in severe disadvantage. Okay. We are creating a two-tier system in which wealth and geography can determine whether you ever get to get a meaningful chance to restore your relationship with your child. And for those reasons, I will be a respectful no. Rep Selber. Thank you, Mr. Chair. I agree with my colleagues here, but I did just want to say thank you very much for meeting individually and with us as Republicans. I just want to say that perhaps more for the rest of the members on the committee who are coming back, not necessarily Rep Froelich for you and I who are term limited. But that's being a good legislator, to sit down and to talk with each member ahead of time and what the bill looks like. I mean, that I really appreciated, and I really did want to lay that on the record. I agree with Representative Flannell that I walked in here leaning yes. And I have to admit, there's just enough areas that I don't feel comfortable with being able to get there. And we'll probably see it on second reading. So my guess is we'll still have to have some more conversations by then as well. But certainly, if nothing else, we can address some of the areas on page 7 of the bill that we talked about earlier. Thank you. Rep. Espinosa. Thank you, Mr. Chair. And I'll make this very brief. I know you're in a hurry to get out, and I think that's important. I just wanted to put on the record that in addition to the conversations that we've had about changes in definitions, I just want to be very clear that as I read the bill and as I've read the statute, we are making a new definition of domestic violence, which will supersede the definitions that were previously in 1410.124.1.3b. So that will become the new definition for domestic violence not only for this section of the statute but for all sections of the statute And so I think it important that as we look at that definition we acknowledge that we making a change and that we are aware of that change having an impact beyond family law. And I know you're going to continue to work on that. In addition, then on page seven, you've addressed that you want to look at the C2, which is a health-related expansion on definitions. but then I also want to point to the expansion on C8, on page 8, that those are all new definitions that are being brought into the statute that we didn't really get a full discussion of, and so it wasn't clearly just the carryover of the existing definitions from all the other sections. So I wanted to just put that on the record. I see where things are going. My only other concern would be in line with what my colleagues have spoken about is the 52 weeks, but for a very different reason, And I think it is that economic question for me that comes into play in terms of whether this sets people up who are in lower economic or other areas to a situation where they cannot meet that standard. Although I understand the purpose and the goals of what you're attempting to do. And hearing when I came into this bill today, I was in the opposite in terms of really trying to figure out where I was going to be. And listening to all the testimony today and hearing the work that you've done and knowing where this all derives from, I have to say I want to congratulate you for the hard work that has been done in this bill, and I will be a yes. Thank you. Amel Bacon, I saw your hand earlier. That's okay. Thank you. Rep's okay. Thank you, Mr. Chair, and thank you to everybody who came and shared deeply personal stories. I know that that was difficult to do, and I appreciate everybody for being vulnerable with us. I do just want to say I am a strong guest on this bill today and I have learned a lot about this issue from the sponsors and how abusers weaponize our legal system to exact revenge and at times weaponize children And we end up with victims of domestic violence being wrongly accused of domestic violence. And I think that this bill really does address that problem that our family courts oftentimes result in minimizing abuse claims. I did just want to highlight the case of Rachel Pickerel Hawkins, who did testify and share her story with us today. She was jailed in my district, and she was held in contempt because she refused to have her kids attend therapy with their father, who was charged with sexually abusing them with seven counts of sexual assault of a child. And I just want to uplift this part of her story where she spoke out and said that the reunification therapy had harmed her boys. They'd been crying uncontrollably, having explosive outbursts, and expressing thoughts of self-harm after attending the sessions with their father. The program was nothing but manipulation, psychological abuse. It's been nothing but coercion and gaslighting. They can't sleep before and after. It causes major anxiety, exacerbates their PTSD symptoms, and has been absolutely devastating to them. And I do want to note that that therapy was provided by Lighthouse Christian Counseling, which would not meet the criteria that you are putting forward now in your bill. And I want to uplift Rachel's story because she is the one who told me about this issue for the first time. I don't know if you remember, Rep. Froelich, the first time I met you was when you were in my district and we met outside the jail. and Rachel told me that despite all of this trauma and pain that she's been through, that she was going to turn it into advocacy and make sure no other parent has to go through that, and you made a commitment to do that with her and I seeing that here now So I want to thank you and thank Rachel and enthusiastically vote yesterday Okay. I'll just say that I appreciate this work. As I mentioned on the last iteration of this bill, my mom and I experienced harms like the ones we heard today when I was a kid and when my parents were in disputes about custody. So I understand how important this work is. I also understand that the constitutional right to parent will always be balanced by judges against what I view as the guidelines that you're putting in this legislation. And judges know that as well when they make these determinations and expect you all to continue to do good work. appreciate the amendments that were brought so far.

Ms. Shipleyother

Ms. Shipley, please call the roll. Representatives Bacon.

Derek Skelchokother

Pass.

Ms. Shipleyother

Clifford.

Derek Skelchokother

Yes. I'm sorry, did you say pass or yes? Pass.

Ms. Shipleyother

Okay.

Derek Skelchokother

Espinosa.

Ms. Shipleyother

Yes.

Derek Skelchokother

Linnell.

Ms. Shipleyother

No.

Derek Skelchokother

Garcia.

Ms. Shipleyother

Yes.

Derek Skelchokother

Elty.

Ms. Shipleyother

No.

Derek Skelchokother

Slaw.

Ms. Shipleyother

No.

Derek Skelchokother

Soper.

Ms. Shipleyother

Respectfully no for today.

Derek Skelchokother

Okay.

Ms. Shipleyother

Yes.

Derek Skelchokother

Bacon.

Ms. Shipleyother

Yes.

Derek Skelchokother

Carter.

Ms. Shipleyother

No.

Derek Skelchokother

Mr. Chair. Yes. Okay, on a vote of 6 to 5, House Bill 1309 passes. You're on the way to the Appropriations Committee. Thank you.

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